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Our Chhora Turned 7 ❤️🎉

On 14 June, our little Chhora turned 7… and honestly, I still can’t believe I’m writing that.

How did seven years go by so quickly? It feels like yesterday I was holding this tiny little baby in my arms, and now here he is — growing into this kind, funny, thoughtful and incredibly mature little person. Time really does move too fast.

This year felt extra special because for the first time, he was so excited to celebrate with his school friends. Now that he’s in Year 1, he had been talking about his birthday party for weeks and had a very clear vision of what he wanted. Seeing him plan who to invite and get excited about celebrating with his friends made me realise how quickly he’s growing up.

So this year, we went big and invited 30+ kids to celebrate at an indoor play centre — and wow… what a day!

The moment we arrived and he saw everything set up, his face absolutely lit up. His party room was decorated with a superhero theme, and he was beyond excited. Watching him proudly welcome his friends and show everyone around made my heart so full.

The kids had the BEST time. They were running around non-stop between the giant slides, soft play area, laser tag, giant cupcake ride and dancing on the dance floor. There was so much energy, laughter and excitement everywhere you looked.

There’s something so magical about watching kids completely lose themselves in fun — making friends, cheering each other on and creating memories they’ll probably talk about at school for weeks.

And of course… there was plenty of food because no kids’ party is complete without it!

The kids enjoyed all their favourites — nuggets, chips, pizza, fruit and popcorn — and there was definitely no shortage of excitement and sugar 😂

For the adults, we were well looked after too with catered gozleme, pizza, chicken wings, salad and chips, which honestly helped keep all the parents going through the party chaos.

It was a long day. We were exhausted by the end of it. There was organising, hosting, making sure everyone was fed, keeping track of kids and all the little things mums and dads do behind the scenes that no one sees.

But then I looked over and saw him.

Running around with the biggest smile on his face. Laughing with his friends. Dancing. Playing. Just being seven.

And suddenly none of the tiredness mattered.

One thing I’ve realised as a mum is that birthdays become emotional in ways you never expect. You spend weeks planning the perfect day and then suddenly you find yourself standing in the corner watching your child grow up in front of you.

This little boy continues to surprise me every day. He is so mature for his age, thoughtful, caring and independent, but still gives the best cuddles and reminds me that he’s still my baby too.

Happy 7th Birthday to our beautiful Chhora ❤️

Thank you for making us laugh, keeping us on our toes and filling our lives with so much love and joy. Watching you grow is the greatest privilege and I hope you always stay kind, curious, confident and full of life.

Slow down time… Mum isn’t ready ❤️

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M from Nepaliaustralian
XOXO

When You Realise Your Second Child Has Been Waiting Too ❤️

I feel bad even admitting this, but sometimes I think it’s true that second children can get overlooked a little compared to the first.

With our chhori, from such an early age we put so much effort into creating opportunities for her. She went to school activities, piano, swimming, gymnastics — and we were always thinking of new ways to add value to her life and give her experiences.

But with our chhora, if I’m being completely honest, we’ve been a little more relaxed (or maybe just more tired and comfortable as parents). He was doing swimming and soccer, but not much else.

Last year he kept asking to try taekwondo and I brushed it off thinking it was probably just another short-term interest. But then he kept asking… for three whole months. Eventually we realised he wasn’t letting it go and decided we should properly look into it.

I’ll admit, I hated the idea at first — twice a week felt like a lot with everything else going on.

And now I’m so glad we said yes.

He absolutely loves it. He gets excited for class, talks about it afterwards and genuinely looks forward to going. Watching him enjoy something that he chose for himself has been such a reminder for me that every child is different and needs different things.

It also made me reflect on how easy it is to assume younger siblings will just fit into family life without us intentionally creating opportunities for them too.

And now that he’s doing so well and enjoying it so much, we decided to send chhori as well — and she’s loving it too ❤️

Parenting really is one long lesson in learning, adjusting and trying to do better.

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Take care,

M from Nepaliaustralian
XOXO

😂📖 Little Reader Moments

Our chhora has been learning to read lately and loves reading everything he sees! The other day while grocery shopping, he spotted a pack of long-life milk and proudly shouted,
“Mum, look! It’s FREE! It says here!” 🥹🤣

Of course, it was lactose free, but “lactose” was a bit too tricky for him — so he just focused on the best part: FREE! 😂

Kids really do make the simplest things so joyful. My heart (and my shopping cart) was full that day. 💖

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M from Nepaliaustralian
XOXO

Chhora turns 5 !!!

And just like that, my beautiful boy turns 5 today.

I can’t believe how fast time has flown by. It feels like just yesterday you were a tiny bundle in my arms, and now you’re a big boy with a heart full of love and a spirit full of adventure. I love you so much, and I am so grateful that you came into our lives to complete our family.

Dear Chhora,

Thank you for choosing me to be your mum. From the moment I first held you, I saw so much in your eyes that it brought tears to mine.

I love it when you say “I love you” 100 times a day. Each time, it melts my heart anew. I love it when you shower me with kisses; every one of them is precious to me.

As you grow older, I see your personality shining through—gentle, fun-loving, and outgoing. I adore every bit of who you are becoming, and I am so proud to be a part of your life.

Your curiosity and zest for life are truly inspiring. Whether you’re building blocks, drawing your favourite characters, or simply running around the garden with boundless energy, you bring so much joy and laughter into our home. Watching you discover the world has been one of the greatest joys of my life.

I love how you always try to make everyone around you smile, whether it’s with a funny joke or a kind gesture. Your heart is as big as your smile, and you have a way of making even the simplest moments special.

I am amazed by how much you’ve grown in these five years, not just in height but in wisdom and kindness. You have a bright future ahead of you, and I can’t wait to see all the wonderful things you will achieve.

Please stay the wonderful, loving boy you are. Keep dreaming big and never lose your sense of wonder. Remember that you are loved more than words can express, and we will always be here to support you, cheer you on, and love you unconditionally.

We love you so much and always will.

With all my love,

Mum

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Chhora said !!!

So, the other day, Chhora asked me how old he would be tomorrow. I said, “Four.” Then he asked, “What about the day after tomorrow?” Again, I said, “Four.” He was relentless—”What about next week?” I replied, “Still four, until June 14.”

He was visibly upset, wondering why he’s always four years old and not five like his friends. This led to a mini tantrum about the unfairness of being perpetually four.

It reminded me of a similar conversation I had with Chhori when she was his age. She too went through this phase of wanting to grow up as quickly as possible, and it made me realize that all kids seem to go through this at some point.

Isn’t it funny how kids are in such a hurry to grow up? They don’t understand that we parents would sometimes love to pause time and keep them small for just a little longer.

Have you ever experienced this with your little ones, them wanting to grow up so fast? How do you handle it? I’d love to hear your stories!

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M from Nepaliaustralian

XOXO

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