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When You Realise Your Second Child Has Been Waiting Too ❤️

Posted on July 30, 2026 | Leave a comment

I feel bad even admitting this, but sometimes I think it’s true that second children can get overlooked a little compared to the first.

With our chhori, from such an early age we put so much effort into creating opportunities for her. She went to school activities, piano, swimming, gymnastics — and we were always thinking of new ways to add value to her life and give her experiences.

But with our chhora, if I’m being completely honest, we’ve been a little more relaxed (or maybe just more tired and comfortable as parents). He was doing swimming and soccer, but not much else.

Last year he kept asking to try taekwondo and I brushed it off thinking it was probably just another short-term interest. But then he kept asking… for three whole months. Eventually we realised he wasn’t letting it go and decided we should properly look into it.

I’ll admit, I hated the idea at first — twice a week felt like a lot with everything else going on.

And now I’m so glad we said yes.

He absolutely loves it. He gets excited for class, talks about it afterwards and genuinely looks forward to going. Watching him enjoy something that he chose for himself has been such a reminder for me that every child is different and needs different things.

It also made me reflect on how easy it is to assume younger siblings will just fit into family life without us intentionally creating opportunities for them too.

And now that he’s doing so well and enjoying it so much, we decided to send chhori as well — and she’s loving it too ❤️

Parenting really is one long lesson in learning, adjusting and trying to do better.

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M from Nepaliaustralian
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Chora’s Tithi birthday

Posted on June 23, 2024 | Leave a comment

I have a delightful and unique tradition when it comes to celebrating my kids’ birthdays: I celebrate them three times! Yes, you read that right—three times. And honestly, I feel like I have no other choice!

First up is their actual birth date. They get so excited about it that I can’t bear to skip a celebration. Their eyes light up with joy, and it’s such a heartwarming sight. So, we always do something special, even if it’s just a small family gathering.

Next, we throw a big birthday bash on the weekend. This is when friends and family join in on the fun. There are games, laughter, and of course, lots of cake. The house is filled with happy chaos, and it’s wonderful to see my kids revelling in all the attention and fun.

Lastly, we celebrate their Tithi birthday. Since we follow the Nepali calendar, our birthdays don’t always match up with the Gregorian calendar. The Tithi birthday is determined by the positions of the sun, moon, and planets. For this celebration, we embrace our cultural roots and have a traditional Nepali celebration with puja and sagun.

This year, for Chhora’s Tithi birthday, I wore a kurta and we performed a traditional puja. Chhora, who has been eagerly anticipating turning five, was thrilled to be a part of this beautiful tradition. We decorated the house, set up the puja area, and once everything was ready, Chhora sat down, eyes wide with curiosity and excitement.

I started with a puja for Lord Ganesh, followed by a special puja for Chhora. I explained each step to him as we went along. He listened intently, followed all the instructions, and didn’t complain or fidget even once! I was so proud of his patience and interest.

After the puja, Chhora received sagun and gifts, his face lighting up with happiness. He could hardly wait to dig into the cupcakes we had prepared. His joy was infectious, and it made all the effort worthwhile.

I truly hope that by celebrating in this way, we’re instilling a deep appreciation of our culture and traditions in our children. I want them to understand their roots and recognize how amazing and rich the Nepali culture is. Seeing Chhora so engaged and excited gives me hope that we’re on the right track!

M from Nepaliaustralian

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Chhora’s 5th birthday celebration

Posted on June 22, 2024 | Leave a comment

We celebrated Chhora’s birthday with a few friends and family over the weekend. He was super excited because he got the Power Ranger decorations he had wished for. Kids are so easy to please, and the smile and excitement on his face made everything we did worth it.

The day started early, with us running around to prepare for the party. We had nuggets, fruits, chips, and fairy bread for the kids, and biryani with raita, salad, cheese and crackers, chips, and dips for the adults.

The house was filled with the delicious aroma of food and the vibrant colors of Power Ranger decorations.
Chhora loved all the attention and had an amazing time with his friends. We played fun games like charades, running with balloons, and had a piñata. The laughter and joy that filled the air were contagious.

The highlight of the day was cutting the homemade Power Ranger cake. Chhora’s eyes lit up as he saw the cake, and his excitement was absolutely heartwarming. Watching him blow out the candles while everyone sang “Happy Birthday” was a precious moment.

Seeing Chhora so happy and enjoying every minute of his special day made all the effort and planning worthwhile. It was a fantastic day filled with laughter, joy, and wonderful memories.

Do you celebrate your kids’ birthdays with a theme? If so, what themes have you tried?

M from Nepaliaustralian

XOXO

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Chhora turns 5 !!!

Posted on June 14, 2024 | Leave a comment

And just like that, my beautiful boy turns 5 today.

I can’t believe how fast time has flown by. It feels like just yesterday you were a tiny bundle in my arms, and now you’re a big boy with a heart full of love and a spirit full of adventure. I love you so much, and I am so grateful that you came into our lives to complete our family.

Dear Chhora,

Thank you for choosing me to be your mum. From the moment I first held you, I saw so much in your eyes that it brought tears to mine.

I love it when you say “I love you” 100 times a day. Each time, it melts my heart anew. I love it when you shower me with kisses; every one of them is precious to me.

As you grow older, I see your personality shining through—gentle, fun-loving, and outgoing. I adore every bit of who you are becoming, and I am so proud to be a part of your life.

Your curiosity and zest for life are truly inspiring. Whether you’re building blocks, drawing your favourite characters, or simply running around the garden with boundless energy, you bring so much joy and laughter into our home. Watching you discover the world has been one of the greatest joys of my life.

I love how you always try to make everyone around you smile, whether it’s with a funny joke or a kind gesture. Your heart is as big as your smile, and you have a way of making even the simplest moments special.

I am amazed by how much you’ve grown in these five years, not just in height but in wisdom and kindness. You have a bright future ahead of you, and I can’t wait to see all the wonderful things you will achieve.

Please stay the wonderful, loving boy you are. Keep dreaming big and never lose your sense of wonder. Remember that you are loved more than words can express, and we will always be here to support you, cheer you on, and love you unconditionally.

We love you so much and always will.

With all my love,

Mum

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Chhora said !!!

Posted on June 9, 2024 | Leave a comment

So, the other day, Chhora asked me how old he would be tomorrow. I said, “Four.” Then he asked, “What about the day after tomorrow?” Again, I said, “Four.” He was relentless—”What about next week?” I replied, “Still four, until June 14.”

He was visibly upset, wondering why he’s always four years old and not five like his friends. This led to a mini tantrum about the unfairness of being perpetually four.

It reminded me of a similar conversation I had with Chhori when she was his age. She too went through this phase of wanting to grow up as quickly as possible, and it made me realize that all kids seem to go through this at some point.

Isn’t it funny how kids are in such a hurry to grow up? They don’t understand that we parents would sometimes love to pause time and keep them small for just a little longer.

Have you ever experienced this with your little ones, them wanting to grow up so fast? How do you handle it? I’d love to hear your stories!

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M from Nepaliaustralian

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