I feel bad even admitting this, but sometimes I think it’s true that second children can get overlooked a little compared to the first.
With our chhori, from such an early age we put so much effort into creating opportunities for her. She went to school activities, piano, swimming, gymnastics — and we were always thinking of new ways to add value to her life and give her experiences.
But with our chhora, if I’m being completely honest, we’ve been a little more relaxed (or maybe just more tired and comfortable as parents). He was doing swimming and soccer, but not much else.
Last year he kept asking to try taekwondo and I brushed it off thinking it was probably just another short-term interest. But then he kept asking… for three whole months. Eventually we realised he wasn’t letting it go and decided we should properly look into it.
I’ll admit, I hated the idea at first — twice a week felt like a lot with everything else going on.
And now I’m so glad we said yes.
He absolutely loves it. He gets excited for class, talks about it afterwards and genuinely looks forward to going. Watching him enjoy something that he chose for himself has been such a reminder for me that every child is different and needs different things.
It also made me reflect on how easy it is to assume younger siblings will just fit into family life without us intentionally creating opportunities for them too.
And now that he’s doing so well and enjoying it so much, we decided to send chhori as well — and she’s loving it too ❤️
Parenting really is one long lesson in learning, adjusting and trying to do better.
People often imagine working from home means a slow morning in pyjamas and endless cups of coffee… but reality? It’s more like balancing meetings, family life, deadlines, school pick-up and trying to remember whether I actually drank my tea while it was still hot 😅
Here’s a little glimpse into a typical work from home day as an IT professional and mum.
My mornings usually start before work mode even begins. I wake up and take a little time for myself — brush my hair, do my skincare and get ready for the day. I’ve realised over time that even on work from home days, getting properly ready helps me feel more focused and puts me in the right mindset.
Then I head out for a morning walk. That quiet time before the day begins has become something I really value. Fresh air, movement and a chance to clear my head before everything gets busy.
Once I’m back home, it’s straight into family mode. Breakfast gets prepared, lunch boxes packed and everyone organised for the day ahead. I make breakfast for the family and prepare lunch for the kids and hubby so everyone is sorted before heading out.
Then suddenly — the house goes quiet.
And just like that… my workday begins.
Laptop open. Calendar checked. Coffee nearby.
Most days are a mix of meetings one after another, project discussions, checking in with teams, responding to messages and trying to stay on top of priorities. In between meetings, I usually find time to finalise documents, work through tasks and keep projects moving.
One thing I’ve learnt working in IT is that there’s always something happening. Some days are calm and productive, and some days feel like solving ten puzzles at once — but I genuinely enjoy the challenge.
Then before I know it… it’s already 3pm.
Time to switch hats again.
Laptop closed (temporarily), keys grabbed and off I go to pick up the kids. I actually love this part of the day because no matter how busy work gets, school pick-up feels like a reset. Hearing about their day, random stories and what happened at lunch somehow puts everything into perspective.
Once we’re back home, it’s back online for a little while to wrap things up and finish work around 5pm.
Then starts my favourite shift — home life.
Afternoons are spent hanging out with the kids, chatting, helping where needed and making time to actually be present. We sit together for tea and snacks, which has become one of those small daily moments I really enjoy.
Then it’s time to make dinner, clean up and settle into the evening.
One of my favourite parts of the day is finally slowing down and talking with hubby — catching up on our days, talking about random things and just spending time together after everything settles down.
Before bed, I spend some more time with the kids — cuddles, chats, hearing about tomorrow’s plans and soaking up those little moments because I know they grow too quickly.
And before I call it a day, I make time for one small ritual that I’ve really come to enjoy — reading my book before going to sleep. It’s my little way to slow down, put the screen away and end the day quietly. Just a few pages helps me relax, reset and take a moment for myself before doing it all again tomorrow. 📚✨
And then… lights out and call it a day.
Work from home life isn’t always perfectly balanced and some days feel chaotic, but I’m grateful for the flexibility, the family moments and being able to do work I enjoy while still being present for the people I love most ❤️
Yesterday we celebrated our 15th wedding anniversary, and my heart feels so full reflecting on how far we’ve come.
I still remember starting this blog around the same time we got married and sharing our wedding journey. Back then, I never imagined how many people would connect with our story, show interest in Nepali and Newari culture and traditions, and follow along through different chapters of our life. It has been such a beautiful journey to share those moments and memories.
And now… here we are, 15 years later.
Fifteen years of growing together, learning together, supporting each other and creating a life that feels bigger and more beautiful than I ever imagined. Looking back, I truly feel so blessed that I found my person ,the one who makes ordinary days feel special and who stands beside me through every season of life.
To my husband : thank you for your love, patience, encouragement and for being my safe place. Thank you for all the laughs, the late-night chats, the adventures, the teamwork and for showing up every single day for our family. Through every challenge and every joyful moment, you have been my greatest blessing.
These 15 years have given us so much : a home filled with love, endless memories and most importantly, our two beautiful kids who make life louder, messier, funnier and infinitely more meaningful. From family trips, pool days, birthday celebrations, silly dances in the kitchen, school runs, cuddles, endless questions and all the little everyday moments , these are the memories I treasure most. Watching our kids grow while growing together as a couple has been the greatest adventure of all.
Marriage isn’t just about the big milestones ,it’s built in the small moments, choosing each other again and again, laughing through the chaos and finding joy in everyday life.
After 15 years, I can honestly say I still feel incredibly lucky to walk through life with you by my side. I love you more than words can ever express, and I cannot wait for many more years of happiness, adventures, traditions, family moments and memories still to come. ❤️
This year’s Teej celebrations were such a beautiful surprise for me! 🌸✨
I ended up joining so many different Teej Ko Daar gatherings with different groups of friends, and each one had its own unique charm. There was endless food (seriously, the feasting never stopped), lots of laughter, hours of dancing, and of course—plenty of TikToks being made along the way. It was festive, colourful, and full of energy from start to finish.
What made it even more meaningful is that I’m Newar, and I didn’t really grow up celebrating Teej in the traditional way. But because of my friends, I was able to immerse myself in the joy of the festival this year—and I absolutely loved every part of it! Sometimes, it’s the people around you who make a festival special, and that’s exactly how it felt.
From finding outfit inspiration online, to getting dressed up in gorgeous festive looks, to sharing meals and dancing until we were all out of breath—the celebrations were about so much more than just tradition. They were about togetherness, joy, and creating memories that will stick with me for years.
Teej this year wasn’t just about celebrating—it was about connection, culture, and pure fun.
I’m so grateful to my friends for including me in their traditions and making me feel part of something bigger. Can’t wait to do it all over again next year! 💃
Just got back from the most amazing girls’ trip to Cairns, and wow—I didn’t realise how much I needed that break until I was in it.
We booked a lovely hotel right near the water, the kind where you wake up to palm trees and sunshine pouring through the curtains. We planned a few excursions— just enough to feel like we were doing something special. Think reef tours, beach strolls, cocktails by the pool… the good stuff.
Coming from soggy, cold Sydney, stepping into Cairns’ warm tropical weather felt like heaven. No jumpers, no rain, just that beautiful Far North Queensland sunshine that instantly lifts your mood. We were living in our swimmers and sundresses, and honestly, I didn’t miss the layers one bit.
But the best part? The company. There’s something so special about being with your girls—no pressure, no roles to play, just open chats and loads of laughs. We talked about everything and nothing, stayed up too late, danced like no one was watching, and just enjoyed being ourselves. It’s amazing how much lighter you feel when you’re surrounded by people who really get you.
And that’s why I’ll never stop saying how important these little escapes are. Life is busy, and as mums, partners, workers—we’re always doing something for someone else. But there’s real magic in stepping away for a bit and just being you.
If you’ve been thinking about planning a girls’ trip—do it. Don’t overthink it. You don’t need a massive budget or a long itinerary. Just pick a place, gather your favourite people, and go. The laughs, the chats, the memories—it’s all so worth it.
To my beautiful girls, thank you for being exactly what I needed. My heart feels full, my spirit feels light, and I already can’t wait for the next one. 💛🌴🍹
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