Category Archives: Nepali Festivals

Teej Celebration

Today marks the celebration of Teej, a festival cherished by Hindu women in Nepal. Observed on the 3rd day of Bhadra Shukla Paksha (as per the Nepali lunar calendar), Teej typically falls in late August or early September. This year, the Fasting day coincides with today. Though I am from the Newar community, where Teej is not traditionally celebrated, I love participating in the festivities here in Sydney with my friends.

Teej is a significant occasion where women fast to seek marital bliss, the well-being of their spouses and children, and purification of both body and soul. Married women fast for their husband’s long life, prosperity, and a strong, enduring bond that transcends not only this life but all lives to come. Unmarried women, on the other hand, pray for an ideal husband. Fasting is observed by most women and girls who have reached puberty, unless they are unwell or physically unable.

In Nepal, Teej is celebrated over four days, each holding its own special meaning:

  • The First Day (Dar Khane Din): A day of feasting and celebration.
  • The Second Day: The main fasting day.
  • The Third Day: A day of purification.
  • The Fourth Day (Rishi Panchami): A day dedicated to honoring the seven sages, or Rishis.

Dar Khane Din

The first day of Teej is known as “Dar Khane Din.” On this day, women dress in their finest attire and gather together to celebrate. Most wear red or dark pink saris, adorned with traditional pote (glass bead necklaces), chura (bangles), and gold jewelry. Some even apply intricate henna designs on their hands. The day is filled with joyous singing, dancing, and a grand feast that often continues until midnight, after which the 24-hour fast begins.

In Sydney, we celebrate Dar Khane Din by each preparing a dish and gathering at one house. We dance, sing, and enjoy dinner together. While most of us don’t fast, it’s a wonderful opportunity to wear saris, accessorise with jewellery, and have fun with friends. I really look forward to this day each year.

Fasting Day

The second day of Teej is the official fasting day. Many women abstain from both food and water for the entire day, while others take liquids and fruits, praying for their husband’s long life. This day is crucial in the Teej celebrations, as women dedicate their day to prayers and puja (worship).

In Nepal, the holy Pashupatinath temple becomes a focal point during Teej, with thousands of women in red saris offering their prayers to Lord Shiva. Women gather to perform puja to Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati, offering flowers, sweets, and coins. A significant aspect of the puja ceremony is the lighting of an oil lamp, which must be kept burning throughout the night to ward off evil.

Purification Day

The third day of Teej is dedicated to purification. After fasting, women bathe and purify themselves with rituals that are intended to cleanse both the body and the soul. They often gather at temples, continuing their prayers to Lord Shiva. This day symbolises the renewal of the mind, body, and spirit, and it marks the conclusion of the fast. The rituals on this day bring a sense of serenity and peace, completing the process of spiritual renewal.

Rishi Panchami

The fourth and final day of Teej is called Rishi Panchami, a day devoted to honouring the seven great sages, or Rishis. On this day, women perform special rituals and pujas to seek forgiveness for any sins, especially those committed unknowingly during menstruation. It is a day of atonement and reverence for the wisdom of the Rishis. Women also take a ritual bath, symbolising purification, and offer their respect to the earth and nature. This day concludes the Teej festival with a focus on spiritual cleanliness and reverence for ancient traditions.

To everyone celebrating Teej today, I wish you a joyful and blessed day! May it bring you happiness, good health, and cherished memories.

M from Nepaliaustralian

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Kushe Aushi (Nepali Father’s Day)

Yesterday marked Kushe Aushi in Nepal, known as Nepali Father’s Day. The day gets its name from “Kush,” a sacred grass traditionally brought home on this no-moon day, or Aushi, hence the name Kushe Aushi.

As I’ve shared in previous posts, Nepal follows a different calendar than the Gregorian one, so Father’s Day in Nepal falls on a different date than in the Western world. In Australia, Father’s Day is celebrated on the first Sunday of September, but in Nepal, the date shifts each year based on the lunar calendar. In Nepal, this day is affectionately known as “Buwa ko Mukh Herne,” which translates to “looking at father’s face.”

Both of my parents have lost their fathers, so each year on Father’s Day, they observe the custom of “sida daan,” a sacred offering made to a priest. Sida is a holy mixture of rice grains, other pure foods, and a set of clothes. Early in the morning, after a ritual bath, they visit the priest to offer the sida. Across Nepal, Hindus whose fathers have passed away gather at Gokarneswar Mahadev Temple on this day to worship, take holy dips, and make offerings. Many also perform “Sraddha” or “pinda daan” for their deceased fathers, whether at home, by a river, or at a sacred site.

The tradition of ancestor worship at Gokarna is steeped in mythology. It is said that in ancient times, Lord Shiva disguised himself as a one-horned golden deer and hid in the Pashupatinath forest. To save the world from suffering, Lord Vishnu, Lord Brahma, and Lord Indra eventually uncovered his disguise. When they captured the deer by its horn, it shattered, revealing Shiva. He then instructed the gods to place his horn in their respective realms. Vishnu enshrined his part in Vaikuntha, Indra in heaven, and Brahma at the sacred site of Gokarneshwor, establishing the tradition that continues today.

This year, we’re celebrating Father’s Day back to back, first with the Australian way and then the Nepali tradition one. Today, our family observed Nepali Father’s Day with the ritual of tika and Sagun, a moment that always feels special. But this year, it was even more meaningful. Watching Chhori confidently perform the puja on her own filled me with pride, and Chhora’s eagerness to learn every detail brought a deep sense of fulfilment. It’s incredibly rewarding to see our efforts to teach them about Nepali traditions paying off, as they’re not only participating but also developing a genuine curiosity about our rich heritage. These small steps we take to preserve our culture are creating lasting memories and a stronger connection to their roots.

M from Nepaliaustralian

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Sri Krishna Janmashtami

Today is Sri Krishna Janmashtami, a revered festival celebrating the divine birth of Lord Krishna. This festival is observed on the Ashtami Tithi—the eighth day of the dark fortnight (Krishna Paksha) in the month of Bhadra according to the Nepali Bikram Sambat calendar. In the Gregorian calendar, it typically falls in August or September.

Sri Krishna Janmashtami is more than just a festival; it is a profound expression of devotion, spirituality, and the eternal battle between good and evil. On this day, Hindus around the world unite in celebration, fasting until midnight—the sacred hour believed to mark the moment of Krishna’s birth. The day is filled with the chanting of verses from the Bhagavad Gita, the singing of bhajans, and the joyous celebration of kirtans. Temples dedicated to Lord Krishna are adorned with vibrant decorations, and the air is filled with the sounds of devotion and the scent of incense.

In Nepal, the Krishna Mandir in Patan Durbar Square, along with the Narayanhiti Krishna Mandir and other significant temples, become the epicenters of Janmashtami celebrations. Devotees flock to these sacred sites, transforming the night into a vibrant tapestry of faith and devotion. As they gather in large numbers, their hearts are united by the love and reverence they hold for Lord Krishna. The sight of women chanting Krishna’s many names, ‘Narayan, Narayan’ and ‘Gopal, Gopal,’ and the rhythmic clapping of hands in tune with ancient hymns creates an atmosphere of divine energy. The narrow steps leading to the temple’s inner sanctum are filled with worshippers, each offering flowers, coins, and food, yearning for a glimpse of the sacred idol of Krishna. After receiving ‘prasad’—the blessed food offerings—from the temple priests, they return home, their spirits uplifted and hearts content.

The festival also features the installation of beautiful cribs holding small idols of ‘Balgopal’ (baby Krishna), symbolising the joyous moment of his birth. These cribs, often referred to as “jhulas,” are tenderly decorated in Krishna temples, evoking the playful and endearing nature of the child-god. Additionally, the night comes alive with performances of Krishna Lila, dramatic reenactments of Lord Krishna’s life, showcasing his divine play (Lila) and his role as the protector of dharma (righteousness).

But beyond the rituals and festivities, Krishna Janmashtami carries a profound message that resonates through the ages. In the Bhagavad Gita, Krishna famously declares, “Whenever there is a decline in righteousness and an increase in unrighteousness, I manifest myself on earth.” This statement is not merely a declaration of divine intervention but a promise that goodness will always find a way to triumph over evil. Krishna Janmashtami serves as a powerful reminder that in times of darkness, when the world seems engulfed by sin and corruption, divine intervention will restore balance and order. The festival symbolises hope, the promise of renewal, and the assurance that no matter how overwhelming the forces of darkness may seem, the light of truth and righteousness will always prevail.

During Krishna Janmashtami, one of the most delightful sights is seeing little kids dressed up as Lord Krishna. Adorned in vibrant dhotis, peacock feathers, and tiny flutes, they embody the playful and charming spirit of Krishna, bringing joy to everyone around. The innocence of these young ones, coupled with their radiant smiles, adds a special sweetness to the celebration, making the occasion even more heartwarming. It’s a beautiful tradition that not only honours the birth of Lord Krishna but also creates cherished memories for families and communities. Just look at chhora as Krishna ji—it’s simply too adorable!

Sri Krishna Janmashtami, therefore, is not just a celebration of Krishna’s birth but a reaffirmation of our faith in the ultimate victory of good over evil, a timeless truth that continues to inspire and guide us through life’s challenges.

M from Nepaliaustralian

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Janai Purnima (The Sacred Thread Festival of Nepal), Kwati Purnima and Raksha Bandhan

Today, we celebrate Janai Purnima, a festival deeply intertwined with Nepali culture and Hindu tradition. This day is particularly meaningful as it marks the time to renew their “janai,” the sacred thread they wear daily.

The janai is first bestowed upon a boy during his Bratabandha ceremony, a rite of passage signifying his initiation into manhood. On Janai Purnima, men come together to perform the sacred ritual of changing the thread while reciting powerful mantras. This thread, representing purity and protection, is worn as a bracelet until the next year’s festival, when the cycle of renewal begins again.

However, Janai Purnima is not solely about the janai. It’s also a day when men, women, and children, regardless of caste, participate in the ritual of tying a sacred yellow thread around their wrists. Men tie this thread on their right wrist, while women tie it on their left. This thread symbolises protection and is believed to bring good luck. Traditionally, it is removed on Laxmi Puja, three months later, and tied to the tail of a cow. In the absence of a cow, the thread can be thrown into a fast-moving river or tied to a plant—like the one I have in my office from last year’s celebration!

The sacred thread carries profound spiritual significance. According to tradition, when the wearer passes away, the cow to whom the thread was tied will help them cross the mythical river Bhaitarna, easing their journey into the afterlife.

Throughout Nepal, Janai Purnima is celebrated with a variety of rituals. Devotees flock to temples, shrines, and riverbanks to perform puja and offer prayers. The day is also marked by communal feasts and gatherings, where families and communities come together in joyful celebration.

Janai Purnima is more than just a religious observance; it is a rich tapestry of cultural practices, spiritual devotion, and the strengthening of family bonds. As Nepal’s streets come alive with the vibrant colors of sacred threads and the sounds of prayers, this festival serves as a powerful reminder of the values that unite us, no matter where in the world we may be.

Today is also celebrated as Kwati Purni in Newar community, a festival named after the cherished dish ‘Kwati.’ This nutritious and hearty soup is made from a combination of nine different soaked and sprouted beans, each bringing its own unique flavor and health benefits. The beans typically used include mung beans (mung), soya beans (bhatmas), red kidney beans (rajma), black grams (mas), black-eyed peas (bodi), fava beans (bakulla), chickpeas/whole grams (chana), field peas (kerau), and white beans (seto simi).

Traditionally, Kwati was a staple for farmers, consumed to rejuvenate their tired bodies during the labor-intensive rice plantation season. Its rich nutritional profile provided the much-needed strength and energy for the hard work in the fields. Beyond its role as a farmers’ food, Kwati is also valued for its digestive benefits and its ability to address various health issues, making it a dish that nourishes both body and soul.

In modern times, Kwati has become more than just a practical meal; it’s a symbol of tradition and a celebration of Nepalese culinary heritage. The preparation and sharing of Kwati bring families together, fostering a sense of community and continuity. Whether enjoyed as a comforting meal on a rainy day or as a festive dish during Kwati Purnima, this soup holds a special place in Nepali culture.

For those interested in making Kwati at home, I’ve shared the recipe here, where you can learn how to prepare this delicious and nourishing soup yourself.

Janai Purnima also coincides with Raksha Bandhan, a cherished tradition where sisters tie rakhis—beautifully decorative bracelets—around their brothers’ wrists. This act symbolises love, protection, and care. In return, brothers give sweets or gifts, reinforcing the bonds of kinship and friendship.

This day is marked by a renewal of spiritual vows and a recommitment to the values symbolised by the janai, which consists of three strands representing purity, spiritual protection, and moral integrity.

The exchange of rakhis is a joyful celebration of sibling love, adding a warm and familial aspect to the festival. The mutual exchange of gifts and promises between brothers and sisters strengthens these bonds and creates lasting memories.

Although I didn’t grow up celebrating Raksha Bandhan, it has become a cherished tradition since I had children. Each year, we have a small ceremony with my brother’s children, and the kids are always so excited to participate. They love the unique traditions and, of course, the exchange of gifts! These moments are precious to me because, even though we are far from Nepal, my children are growing up learning about and staying connected to their Nepali heritage.

M from Nepaliaustralian

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Nag Panchami: Celebrating the Snake Festival in Nepal

Did you know that we have a festival dedicated to snakes? It’s called Nag Panchami, and we had the pleasure of celebrating it yesterday with much joy and devotion.

Nag Panchami is a unique and sacred festival in Nepal where we honour snakes, revered as protectors and symbols of fertility in Hindu culture. Celebrated during the auspicious month of Shrawan, this festival is observed with great reverence by many Nepali families, each adding their own traditions and practices to the day.

In Hindu mythology, during the churning of the ocean (Samudra Manthan), a potent poison emerged, threatening the balance of the world. To protect humanity, Lord Shiva courageously swallowed the poison, neutralising its destructive power. The snake Basuki played a vital role in this cosmic event as the churning rope, and in recognition of Basuki’s contribution, Lord Shiva adorned himself with the serpent as a divine ornament around his neck.

On Nag Panchami, we pay homage to eight sacred Nagas: Ananta, Basuki, Takshak, Karkotak, Padma, Mahapadma, Shankhpal, and Kuli. These revered serpents are believed to offer protection and blessings. By honoring them, we express our respect and seek their guardianship.

People celebrate Nag Panchami by offering milk, rice, flowers, and even eggs to snake idols or images, as well as to snake holes believed to be their homes. Some visit temples where real snakes are kept, seeking blessings for protection, good fortune, and prosperity. It is widely believed that worshiping snakes on this day can safeguard families from snake bites and ward off negative energies.

In homes across Nepal, families draw pictures of snakes on walls or doors using cow dung, turmeric, or red clay, which are then worshipped with offerings. This simple act of devotion symbolises respect and a plea for protection from these powerful and often misunderstood creatures. These customs highlight the deep connection between humans and nature, reminding us of the importance of living in harmony with all living beings.

Nag Panchami is more than just a ritual—it’s a time for families to come together, pass down stories and traditions from one generation to the next, and celebrate the richness of Nepal’s cultural heritage. In some regions, the festival is marked by folk dances, songs, and special meals, creating a sense of community and reinforcing bonds within families and neighborhoods.

Nag Panchami is a celebration of life, nature, and the divine. While the rituals may seem simple, they carry profound meaning, serving as an important part of our cultural heritage. Whether through offerings, prayers, or simply spending time with loved ones, this festival is a beautiful reminder of the spiritual connection we share with all living beings.

Wishing everyone a Happy Nag Panchami! May this festival bring blessings, harmony, and prosperity to all.

Take care, everyone!

XOXO

M from NepaliAustralian