Loving Nepali Culture and traditions

This article was published in +977 (a Nepalese Lifestyle Magazine in Australia) in June 2013 issue.


I have lived in Australian for over a decade and I have to admit, I love Nepal, its culture and traditions more than the day I left her.

It is funny to remember how relived I was when I received the visa to come here. It was like; finally, I was going to be out of Nepal, far from all the stupid traditions and cultures to a new land where I could start all over again. Even though I was very sad leaving my family behind, I was really excited for the possible future. The preparation to leave the country was done with high spirit and positive attitude.

Finally the big day came. Before I left the house, in a traditional manner, my grand ma put a red tika on my forehead, and blessed me with sagun. I still remember the time I spent at the airport in Kathmandu. I was a bit teary eyed while bidding good bye to all the people who came to see me off. I realised that day that I had so many people around me who loved me. I had my parents, my brother, my relatives, my cousins, my school friends and my college friends, more than 30 people there wishing me well and saying their good byes.

Travelling in a plane to Sydney for the first time, I knew I was blessed with loved one but still at the back of my mind, I was happy about my decision about leaving Nepal and coming here.

The first few weeks in Sydney were really exciting as it was a new place, so much to see and explore. I got my first mobile phone and it surely felt like my dream country. But then reality hit me. For the first time in life, I needed to find a job. It was quite an effort to work, to cook meals and study at the same time. I was missing Nepal and home a lot. I convinced myself that the hardship was just temporary and once I got settled, things would change.

Things did change for the better after I got a job and started making friends but I still missed my family and Nepal a lot. I was surprised that I was missing my morning ritual in Nepal, going to the temples with my dad. I was missing my mum’s puja in the morning, the noise of the chaotic traffic of Kathmandu, the vegetables and fruits vendors’ calls selling their stuffs door to door, the sound of temple bells, and missing all the festivals. Being far from home, I realised and slowly started to value the culture and tradition of Nepal which I used not to like.

The first Dashain and Tihar away from home were really hard ones. Even though holidays were the best part of Dashain and Tihar in Nepal, I missed the tika and other religious aspects of these festivals. I also missed celebrating my birthday in a traditional way, tika with sagun in the morning and visiting many temples during the day.

As time passed by, I started embracing Nepali culture and tradition and started following it as much as possible. I started taking down notes of what happens in our culture and it was a joy to explain to people from other countries the different aspects of Nepali tradition. It felt so good to see their reaction when I explained what we do during our festivals, wedding, birth and death. I realise that our culture is so unique and old that it is worth all the effort to preserve it

I started celebrating Dashain and Tihar in full swing and having more family and friends here definitely helped to make it better. Even though I am from a Newar background, I joined my friends when they celebrate Teej and love every minute of it. Living abroad definitely has made me appreciate Nepal and its culture lot more than before.

I went to Nepal and had a very traditional wedding and I was happy to participate in a very elaborate ceremony over many days. Recently, my brother and sister in law were blessed with a baby boy and we made sure we followed all the traditional rituals here even though we are so far away from home. He had his Chhaithi and Nwaran here and we all went to Nepal to celebrate his Pasni with our loved ones.

These days instead of getting annoyed by the tradition and culture in Nepal, I feel inquisitive. I always want to know more why we do Ihi, Gufa , Bartamanda, Saradha, Pasni, Nwaran or any other ritual. I want to learn the legends behind our every festival and one day wish to pass this knowledge on to my kids. I want them to be proud of Nepal and Nepali culture. Even though I am not in Nepal, Nepal and its culture and tradition will always be in me and I hope to spread this love to the next generation so they can be proud of our heritage, tradition and culture.

Do you still follow your cultures and traditions?

Till next post, take care.

M from nepaliaustralia


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23 responses to “Loving Nepali Culture and traditions

  1. I loved visiting Nepal and felt so privileged to be with Nepali people in their homes, to see the way they really live and beyond the typical tourist experience. They were so gracious and hospitable. I hope very much to return one day, hopefully with my husband. You are from a beautiful place, rich with history and culture. If felt magical to me!

    • Thank you so much. Really very happy to see that you have such a positive experience in Nepal and with Nepali people. I always feel, Nepal is so rich in culture and tradition and nature has gifted us so many amazing places. Thank you for reading my blog.

  2. thanks for sharing this insight into the culture of Nepal dear..I so want to visit Nepal again 🙂

  3. thank you for liking the posts in http://www.ceciliayu.com
    Namaste. I love aspects of your culture too and hope for more girl child education across all castes and subcastes in your culture. Even though I grew up in Melbourne, charitable works took me to Kathmandu a lot! 🙂 Lovely to meet you via the blog-a-sphere.

  4. As for me, I am a mix of cultures so I tend to follow the way I was raised and the place of my birth. . . American style. But I think it is always nice to not lose sight of one’s culture and that it is important to pass it to the younger generation .

  5. i hear you. I cant wait to go back someday during dasain maybe.

  6. I’ve always admired the way u’ve preserved our traditions and preserved it with own efforts. Awakening to many. Congrats.

  7. It would be a very boring world with one culture. Diversity is wonderful.

  8. I have got a pressing question for you. Hope you take it as normal. My question is, when are you thinking of moving to Nepal again permanently? 🙂

  9. During the entire reading of this post i felt lucky myself that m reading this post,,,whole reading has given inspiration…and the last paragraph is most effective one…thank you sis for such kind of post and i have learned so many informative things from your blog,

  10. Have u read Immortals of Meluha? It’s completely irrelevant question but had to ask it:)

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