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When are you thinking of moving to Nepal again permanently?

In one of my post, one of the fellow blogger, asked me the question “When are you thinking of moving to Nepal again permanently? “Many people have asked me this question before and I too have asked myself the same question repeatedly.

If the question was “Are you thinking of moving to Nepal again permanently?” my answers will be definitely YES but I am not sure when.

Initially, I wanted to go there before I turned 40 because I was thinking I will have my life sorted out by then and will have good income to go and live in Nepal with my family. When I used to answer like that lots of people around me told me that things would change in the future and it seems they might have been right because now I am not sure when I will be going and I am sure having a baby and owning a house definitely makes a big difference.

Still, I want to retire there but it is not going to be anytime soon.

I left Nepal initially for study, but it has been more than a decade and in that time I have learned a lot, seen a lot and have done extensive traveling. I have seen many places, tasted different food, met different people and seen different life-styles. However, I remain proud of my roots and I visit Nepal as often as I can. I doubt that that would ever change.

Every time I plan a trip to Nepal, I feel happy thinking of the traditional food, friends to meet, movies to watch and travel.

The first time I visited Nepal my friends were busy and so I really did not get much time to spend with them. Of course, they had their life in Nepal and they couldn’t just drop everything for me just because I was on holiday. I got sick with diarrhoea and vomiting. Three months in Nepal went by so quickly just going to relatives’ homes and a bit of travel.

Since them every time I have been there, the situation was similar or worse because most of my friends were married by then and some even had kids which meant they had lots of responsibilities in their day-to-day life to make time to meet me or entertainment me.

Then I got married and things changed completely because now I had two families to spend time with so I had even less free time for other stuffs like catching up with friends. Every time I visit Nepal, the reality of living in Nepal forever seems harder and harder as things are completely different from what I imagine in my head.

Now we have a mortgage as well which means we are not going anywhere until it is all paid off. So I am sure I will not be moving back to Nepal in my 40s for sure but I am still hoping to retire there. When that will really happen, only time will tell but I definitely want to.

I still have a dream of building our own all Nepali style house with carved wooden doors and windows. I still want a garden with Dhunge Dhara (stone water tap) and lovely view. I still want to wake up to the sound of temple bells . I still want to live in a place where I am not asked “Where are you from?” every day. I still want our kids to know our culture and traditions and be proud of it.

Hope this dream will come true one day.

Please share your story about your decisions of making another country your permanent home. What caused your decision and How did your decision affect you?

Take care ,

M from nepaliaustralian

XOXO

Anzac Day 2014

Every year on 25 April Australian mark the anniversary of the first major military action fought by Australian and New Zealand forces during the First World War. It is called ANZAC day and Australia has public holiday to commemorate this day. Sharing some of the touching photos from the day.

Lest we Forget.

Redcliffe, Queensland.

Redcliffe, Queensland. Source: News Corp Australia

The Memorial Cross at Mount Macedon, Victoria.

The Memorial Cross at Mount Macedon, Victoria. Source: News Corp Australia

Gold Coast, Queensland.

Gold Coast, Queensland. Source: Getty Images

The Shrine of Remembrance, Melbourne.

The Shrine of Remembrance, Melbourne. Source: News Corp Australia

Hobart.

Hobart. Source: News Corp Australia

Redcliffe, Queensland.

Redcliffe, Queensland. Source: News Corp Australia

Point Danger, Tweed Heads.

Point Danger, Tweed Heads. Source: News Corp Australia

Canberra.

Canberra. Source: Getty Images

Currumbin Surf Life Saving Club, Queensland.

Currumbin Surf Life Saving Club, Queensland. Source: Getty Images

Currumbin Surf Life Saving Club, Queensland.

Currumbin Surf Life Saving Club, Queensland. Source: Getty Images

Currumbin Surf Life Saving Club, Queensland.

Currumbin Surf Life Saving Club, Queensland. Source: Getty Images

Point Danger, Tweed Heads.

Point Danger, Tweed Heads. Source: News Corp Australia

Currumbin Surf Life Saving Club, Queensland.

Currumbin Surf Life Saving Club, Queensland. Source: Getty Images

Redcliffe, Queensland.

Redcliffe, Queensland. Source: News Corp Australia

Currumbin Surf Life Saving Club, Queensland.

Currumbin Surf Life Saving Club, Queensland. Source: Getty Images

ANZAC Day Commemorated At Currumbin

Currumbin Surf Life Saving Club, Queensland. Source: Getty Images

Eltham, Victoria.

Eltham, Victoria. Source: News Corp Australia

Point Danger, Tweed Heads.

Point Danger, Tweed Heads. Source: News Corp Australia

Currumbin Surf Life Saving Club, Queensland.

Currumbin Surf Life Saving Club, Queensland. Source: News Corp Australia

A sea burial, Queensland.

A sea burial, Queensland. Source: Getty Images

Currumbin Surf Life Saving Club, Queensland.

Currumbin Surf Life Saving Club, Queensland. Source: News Corp Australia

Redcliffe, Queensland.

Redcliffe, Queensland. Source: News Corp Australia

Eltham, Victoria.

Eltham, Victoria. Source: News Corp Australia

Eltham, Victoria.

Eltham, Victoria. Source: News Corp Australia

Robert Amour with granddaughter Katura Halleday.

Robert Amour with granddaughter Katura Halleday. Source: News Corp Australia

Easter long weekend break

It sounds crazy but we, Aussies get excited about long weekends. It doesn’t happen often but every time when a long weekend is on the way, most of us have plans for it. One of them was last weekend for Easter.

Normally, I plan months in advance for the break but this time I was too tired to even think about it. Having come back from Nepal just a few weeks ago, I needed to rest but of course, it was not going to happen.

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My cousins are visiting from the US and they were planning a trip away so we did a last minute planning. We were lucky that we managed to get accommodation for seven adults and three kids. Of course, it was expensive but still we managed to plan the trip and left Friday morning for the Hunter Valley.

Hunter Valley

We had been to Hunter Valley multiple times before but we still enjoyed the Hunter Valley Gardens with the kids again and also the wine tasting. The kids were having a blast and we just loved it  🙂

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Nelson Bay and Toboggan Hill Park

Nelson bay is a big area and even though we had been there before, it was still a great place to be. We swam in One-mile beach and went for a walk in Nelson Bay wharf.

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We also went to Toboggan Hill Park, which is set amongst natural bush just off Salamander Way at Nelson Bay. We had so much fun with the kids tobogganing. The 1km track starts with an automatic uphill tow of 300 metres.

From the top station, we can control the speed of our toboggan as we commence the exhilarating descent.  The track winds down through 11 bends before we reach the bottom. With practice, speeds of up to 45 – 50km/hour are possible. All the little ones rode with their mum/dad and they enjoyed it a lot too.

Toobagan Hill

The Entrance

Surrounded by lagoons, lakes and beaches, The Entrance is a beautiful town. When we arrived in The Entrance, they were having markets and carnival for Easter. We just walked around and enjoyed the view.

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At 3.30 pm they had pelican feeding and that is what we wanted to observe. The pelican feeding in The Entrance Memorial Park is a highlight of the place. By 3:00 pm there were so many people gathered in the park. We also waited patiently as we knew the feed went ahead in all weather and is sponsored by local businesses.

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According to the official info, the pelican feeding started by accident over twenty years ago when staff from a local fish and chip shop would throw out scraps. It became such a ritual that whenever the staff were late in throwing their scraps out, the pelicans would cross the road and come up to the shop to be fed. The Pelicans start coming in group to the waterfront around 3.00, approaching the platform slowly and jump into the platform just before 3.30 pm when the staff are ready to feed them with the fish.

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It was a great to watch them as they eat the fish and go back to the water. It’s not all fun and games, though.  The volunteers use the daily contact to keep an eye on the welfare of the pelicans, which are prone to injury from plastic bags, fishing line and hooks.

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Hope all of you had great Easter too.

This week is very short week for us (Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday) as from this Friday we are having Anzac long weekend so looking forward to another long weekend.

Take care, everyone.

M from nepaliaustralian

XOXO

Happy Valentine’s Day my dear Husband

Today is Valentine’s Day and I had a great start. I woke up to this awesome message on our kitchen bench top this morning. Thank you my dear, can’t wipe smile off my face ❤ ❤ ❤

valentine (2)And of course there was red roses and balloon. Here is our happy snap we clicked before leaving for work.

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He also send the following message.

Thank you for coming into my life.You make me complete.
You are my everything.Once again, be my Valentine.

Happy Valentines Day Love.

I am very happy and here is a love letter to my thoughtful romantic husband 🙂

My dear husband AS,

It is Valentine’s Day today and I can’t help but remember our very first valentine’s day, the day when we were miles apart but you made it so much special for me anyway. (If you haven’t read the post, here is the link.)

Like every year, love is in the air and I couldn’t stop myself but feel extremely lucky to have someone so special in my life. I know I don’t say that every day but I like you to know that you are the reason I wake up smiling every morning. You are the reason that my heart beats. As the years go by, I stop and think about all the memories we have made, the good times we have shared and the love between us that keeps growing.

I know I am stubborn and not always so easy to get along with and I know my insecurities sometimes get the best of me. I am very thankful that you are in my life when I need someone to hold me and tell me everything is going to be OK.

Life has become more meaningful because of you. I admire the way you inspire me to face life with so much faith and strength. We have been through a lot and yet we are still together and stronger than ever.

I love you not because of your good looks, your awesome body and how much you earn . I love you because I am a better person when I am with you. You have been my best friend from the beginning and I could not imagine life without you. Thank you for sharing your life with me. I love you.

Forever Yours,

M

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Happy Valentine’s Day everyone !!!

P.S: We are going for a movie and dinner tonight 🙂 . Share your plan for today.

Take care everyone ,

M from nepaliaustralian

XOXO

Review : MaHa Yatra, Sydney – Best night ever

When there was an announcement that MaHa, the comedy duo of Nepal, Madan Krishna Shrestha and Hari Bansha Acharya are coming to Sydney with their show, both me and AS got very excited. For those who have no idea who they are, the duo represents the pinnacle of comedy in Nepal. Their style is focused on creating awareness through laughter. They have also been involved in creating social activities and political freedom movements. They have created lots of teleserials (some of the best) and various patriotic movies which are among the greatest hits in Nepalese TV and Movie industry.

When I went to the event organiser’s website, I found the following information:

The MaHa duo, Madan Krishna Shrestha and Hari Bansha Acharya and other artists are going to perform in various cities of Australia under a tour titled MaHa Yatra 2014.

The artists comprising of MaHa, Kiran KC, Basundhara Bhusal, Narendra Kansarkar, Shiva Hari Poudel, Kunti Moktan and Mohit Bamsha Acharya (Haribansha’s son) will also be in the MaHaYatra tour.

The artists are scheduled to reach Australia on January 16. The tour will start from the Australian city Perth on January 18 and will conclude in Sydney on February 2. The events will be conducted in the major cities like Perth, Canberra, Melbourne, Brisbane, Adelaida, and Sydney.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NPlLRnNcwlQ

The show was going to be even better than we had imagined as there other artist who were supporting Maha on their amazing show. Straightaway I sent the link to all my friends and family so we could go together. And I bought the ticket as I didn’t want the tickets to run out. I was glad that I was able to save $15 a ticket in the process as well. That was back in December.

Yesterday, February 2, Sunday was the much awaited date of the event. Many of you might me surprised that the event was in the evening from 6:30 -10pm. Yes, I was thinking the same thing, the pain of having to wake up early to go to work the next day after the show but I am sure Maha was worth that trouble. There were heaps of people who we knew attending the event and everyone was excited about it. The only downside of this event was that seats are unallocated that means first come, first serve for the best seats.

I and AS decided that we wanted to get good seats so we planned on being at the venue at 5:00 pm to queue up as the doors were opening at 5.30pm.

We had a very busy Sunday and both of us were tired in the afternoon.  However, the excitement for the show kept both of us going. We caught a train and were at the venue around 5:00pm. To our dismay, all the other people had the same idea and there was a long queue in front of the venue. We saw lines going two directions and realised that the gates were not open yet. While we were in the queue, after around 15 minutes one of the organisers came shouting that the line we were on was for pre purchased tickets only and if we have bought the tickets online we need to be in the other. He was also saying that people with VIP platinum tickets could walk right in with no need to queue up! Ah the luxury of being a VIP!

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I was really annoyed after that as there were no sign saying that. Later I saw the signs close to the door where no one could see them. That was just ridiculous form their part as we were not the only people who were queuing in the wrong line. They could have made life easy for everyone if they had some big signs saying the same thing or some volunteers announcing it more often.

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Anyway, we had no choice but to change the line and go back to another long line. This is the kind of thing that normally puts off people to attend functions.

Anyway I tried to calm down as I didn’t want to ruin our experience with Maha. I also got a bit annoyed that if you know the organiser, you don’t have to queue as I saw many people without VIP Platinum tickets been escorted up the stairs. I was thinking, I wish I knew someone too so I didn’t have to stand in the sun on the hot day.

Good thing that the gate did open at 5:30  and the line slowly moved forward. Finally we were able to give our internet printout and were given two bracelets. It was going to be our tickets for the show. As we walked inside the venue it was a bit dark and someone was already on the stage. Glad the program introduction was already on, which meant the main event was going to start soon.

As we had imagined, all the good seats were already taken but we still managed to get two seats with unobstructed view of the stage and this is how the evening started.

There were two MCs on the stage, a male and a female, and they were reading the thank you notes to the sponsors and the rules against recording the show. I do understand that due to internet they have to be strict with recording devices these days and I had even watched announcement before the event and was aware of no photos and video rules. It was sad that I am not able to share any photos from the events but just my experience in these words.

One rule that really surprised me was that we were not allowed to leave the venue once we are in. I wish they had told us that on our ticket so we could come prepared with some snacks. Then they started calling names of some well know Nepalese people in Sydney to come to the front of the hall as an honor and recognition for their contribution to Nepalese community.

It may sound bad but sometimes I feel that most of the community in Sydney are there to promote themselves than the Nepalese people and culture. They always organise things and show off things in the events like this . A while ago I attended a Nepalese function where they spent the first one hour of the event describing what they did which I think was not impressive anyway and at the same time honoring each other for their contribution. I did not think even 5% of the audience cared about all that was being said as they were trying to bask in the 5 minutes of fame.

But with this event I am glad they didn’t do the same thing but went straight to the program.

The program started with local dancers doing contemporary  moves by 2 boys and some Nepalese moves by 2 girls. The boys were good even thought they were not in sync all the time but the girls were not so good. They forgot their moves and steps so many times. While I was watching them perform, I was hoping there were not many local artists performing before the real acts. Sometimes I feel that they are forcing us to watch these acts even though we didn’t pay to see them. I know they want to show their talents but I am sure there are many other platforms where they will be much appreciated than shows like this where people feel forced to watch them.

Thank god, the organisers were smart and to our surprise, it was the only local act for the whole event. Then the proper event started.

The first one on the stage Shiva Hari Poudel, the funny man I remember form TV programs I used to watch as a kid back in Kathmandu. OMG, what a start of the amazing night we had. He was so funny that my tummy was already hurting by the time he left the stage. What an amazing talented entertainer who could do stand-up comedy, sing, parody and much much more.

It was followed by the songs from a veteran Nepalese singer, Kunti Moktang. She is one of the classically trained folk and modern singers in Nepal and I learned that she was actually born in Darjeeling. I never knew that about her but remember listening to her songs on radio and watching her on TV in Nepal. She was an amazing performer for sure as she engaged the crowd so well.  The energy she has and the way her voice made connecting with the audience was just amazing. I loved every bit of per performance.

It was followed by the singing dancing act by Kiran KC, another veteran comedian and actor who I remember from my days in Kathmandu. I was surprised that he is so multi-talented as he sang, danced and made everyone laugh as well. I was really enjoying the event and the best part was yet to come.

Then it was the show time, the Maha duo were on stage along with Basundhara Bhusal (comic actresses in Nepalese movie Industry), and Mohit Bamsha Acharya. The show was just Amazing with a capital A. They tackled political topics with parody really well and added lots of fun. There was never a dull moment, no wonder they have been around for so long and are so well loved.

This was my second time watching their live show. I remember the last one was equally spectacular. I had also gone to watch Hari Bansha Achary’s movie when he was here the last time and also met him in person. Amazing human being and so well grounded for someone with so much fame.

After the main act, they went around again with Kunti Moktang’s songs, Kiran KC and Shiva Hari Poudel another comedy piece and to our surprise another act by the Maha duo which was equally funny and entertaining. We couldn’t believe we were treated with so much variety that this show definitely made the most amazing show in Sydney by any Nepalese artist.

That was followed again by songs my Kunti Moktang. She was doing a great job and even Basundhara Bhusal, Shiva Hari Poudel and Kiran KC came on the stage to dance to her songs. It was 10.20pm when I checked my watch and we could not stand our tummy’s cry for food any longer. It was literally begging us at that stage.

So when the last song for Kuntai Motaga was over, we thought the program must be nearly over and decided to leave and run to the nearby KFC to get some energy so we could survive our ride back home on the train.

Of course KFC had to be busy as well and it took a while to order the dinner. I have never had KFC so tasty and good. (Mental notes to self, do more exercise to burn all that fat from chicken wings and the wrap). Once we were done with our dinner, we made our way to the station and saw many people on the platform returning from the show. The program seemed to be finished so I guess we didn’t miss much.

We were home by 11.30 and in bed after midnight which is really late for a Sunday nite :(. But we enjoyed the show as we had never before. If you ever hear that the Maha duo is coming to your town with Maha Yatra, go and buy the best tickets you can and enjoy the show. I am 100% certain, it will be worth every penny and they will keep you entertained for sure.

I hope to go to this kind of amazing shows in future in Sydney as well. Hope other organisers will take notice of this event and try to raise their benchmark of Nepalese programs in Sydney. Please no more local artists to bore us until we wait for the performance we paid our money for. And no more Nepali time please, we are in Sydney, Australia.

Few points for organisers if they are reading:

  • First of all, well done on organising one of the best organised event I ever attended in Sydney in more than a decade Definitely the artists and their performance was A class and I am sure everyone who has attended the show will agree with me. But there are some things I will like to point out that could have made our experience even better.
  • Allocated seating so we don’t feel that we need to fight for the seats. Because of the same reason, I couldn’t have seats next to our friends and family.
  • Sorry, that male MC was booed out of the staged every time he came. You know the reason why. We didn’t want him to be on stage for 10 minutes reading things out of a paper when we could have used that time to be entertained by the amazing artists. I hope that will be a lesson learned and it was well tackled as the program continued, well done.
  • People need to remember you don’t need to scream on the microphone, they are already loud enough. It is a note for your female MC. She did a great job apart from the fact that she was screaming into the microphone while announcing the artists.
  • As it was a dinner show, everyone would have benefited from a quick break. In addition, a note printed on a ticket that we were not allowed to go out from the venue and there would be no breaks would have been really appreciated. It was not fun to go for 5 hours without any food. My tummy was crying even thought I was having lots of fun. I know you guys were giving us great entertainment but still we do need FOOD.
  • Town hall is an amazing venue but I noticed this time and last time too, they don’t have good absorption for noise so look into it a bit as there were high pitched problem few times and I missed a few dialogues (I am sure important too) as well during the events.
  • Make the events Friday or Saturdays nights if possible as waking up this morning was a pain (everywhere).

P.S: This post and this is merely sharing my true experience of the event and have no intention of offending anyone.