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Our Story : LA Airport – Part 2

This is a continuation of my previous post. Please read the previous post here.

So where were we? Yes, AS has finally come to meet me at LA airport. Surprise surprise!!!

We greeted each other and it was hard to believe he was in front of me after so many years. We hadn’t seen each other for ages, more than 7 years. He still looked the same as I remembered him from the school days. He was still skinny like I remembered with his glasses and that big smile. His hair was a bit longer but still somewhat similar. He looked tired but seemed genuinely happy to see me.

He asked me if I had plan for rest of the time there. I told him that it would be annoying to go to touristy places with my big luggage so I was thinking to spend the time in the airport itself. Also I was scared to miss my flight due to traffic in LA if we ended up going somewhere far.

So we decided to sit around the food court and he helped me push the heavy trolley.

Once we sit down and started talking, it didn’t feel like we hadn’t met for so long. It was as if we had always been in touch. Lots had happened in those years so we had lot of topics to talk about. I was surprised how both of us were so comfortable with each other even after so many years. He told me what was happening with his life and I updated about my life. We talked about anything and everything.

We remembered our school days when we used to go out for lunches and go to our favourite café to have tea and chicken and vegetable pastries.

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We also played pool (pocket billiards or pool billiards) and I learnt all the rules and how to play it then.

Also all the hiking trips we went too.

Our old photos (1)

Ohoo, those carefree days! How I wish time had stopped then and we could be happy like then forever in life.

Our group of friends used to go to Hotel Soaltee every month or so. They had a gaming centre where you buy tokens and play games. All of us used to have paid satellite TV then so, once a month when we used to get the guide, it would come with tokens for the game centre. So all of us would collect them and go to this centre and have fun. They had games like bowling, mini basketball as well as usual gun and car games.

What we used to do was use those tokens and may be buy a few more and spend the afternoon there. It was so much fun as we would be more that 8+ people at a time. Also most of the games used to give winning tickets. Once you had a certain number of tickets, you could get some prize. I remember getting a Goofy from Disney using our tickets. As you know in these centres, you really need many tickets to get any reasonable prize. That Goofy was possible when all our tickets were combined but they let me keep the goofy at that time.

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I brought that Goofy with me to Australia when I first came to Australia as it was one of the things that reminded me of my friends from school. Now that Goofy is even more special as AS is in my life now.

He also told me he still had a gift we (me and one of my friends) gave him for his birthday. I was scratching my head trying to remember what exactly it was. I was glad when he explained to me and I remembered. It was a crystal swan we picked up from a gift shop because we didn’t knew what to buy a guy. So we decided on a show piece. But it was ages ago and I had completely forgotten about it. I know it is bad but I also don’t remember what they (him and other friends) gave me for my birthdays then and I didn’t dare to ask him.

The gift

Also we talked about how fun it was when we used to go to tuition together and go to temples afterwards. I think our tuition with only two other friends gave us more time to know each other. Those were the days when we used to visit each other’s home more often. Because the place  we went for extra tuition was closer to my place, it was normal for everyone to drop into my home. Now I feel blessed to have parents with an open mind. They never minded that I had friends (which included few female ones but many males) over all the time.

In Nepali society especially then, it is not usual for a girl to have many male friends. And bringing them home was big NO NO. I remembered my cousins who had never brought a male friend home. It was not allowed. But my parents were awesome to have trust and faith in me to let me do what I wanted. They never minded or complained about my friends. My girlfriends used to come for overnight stays while my male friends could come to visit anytime. Most of them had lunch or dinner at our place if they were there during meal times. Also my parents were really cool coming to talk to my friends and getting to know them better. I definitely have to remember this when we have our own kids one day.

Also we talked about the day he came with my other friends to airport, the day I left Kathmandu for Sydney. Going through the pictures, I find it really sweet that more than 30 people were there at the airport that day to bid me good bye which included my family and friends I do remember him at airport that day but nothing more than that.

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I was highly emotional during that time. My little cousins were crying while my parents had tears in their eyes. I stayed really strong during the whole time and cried only once I was inside the airport. I knew if had I started crying there, then everyone else would cry as well. Even though I was really young then, I guess I was a strong girl to leave everything behind to start afresh in a strange land with no help. But today I have to say that was one of the best decisions of my life as my life wouldn’t have been same without that major decision.

During our conversation, he asked me about my husband and kid. I must tell you all why he asked the question.

You know I told you before how I used to get annoyed with AS that he used to disappear for more than six months at a time. I wouldn’t know anything about him and then he would suddenly pop up with a few lines in an email.  So one of those days I sent him the following email.

Hello AS,

Hope you are doing great. Just dropped in to say hi.

It looks like, “ Out of sight, out of mind” applies to you perfectly.

I believe you must be married with kids by now.

If u are in hi5 or Facebook, add me so it will be easy to keep in touch.

Take care

M

To this he replied after a month (It was quick for his track record).

Hey,

Out of sight but not the mind 🙂 not for friends..

 I’d kind of dropped off the online world it seems.. Back again.

 I’m still in India.. Where u at and how u doing 🙂 lots of guys gone off and married.. NP, GB.. But not me yet 🙂 what about u? I’d think u must be 🙂

Mail me, take care.

AS

To that I replied after a week

hey hey hey

Finally u manage to reply….God you must be very busy? ;-P

So u r still working in India. What r u doing these days?

I know lot of our frds r married and got kids too. Remember NS, she got 2 kids now.

Anyway what about u ?how many u got now? How about a girlfriend if not wife…..

Why aren’t you in Facebook still? sign up…come on b more social man……

My life is rocking, got married and had one kid and life is going. Such is life.

Still in Sydney and having lots of fun

Don’t disappear, keep in touch

Take c are

M

Can you believe, he replied to above email in two days?

Hey M,

Not planning to disappear 🙂

good to hear u’r married and a kid too..

Can’t quite believe that when I think of the past and Kathmandu 😉

I’m still in India but going to US this weekend. I got a job there.. Will be there for about a year at least.. Then probably I too will get married…

Gotta find a nice girl for that though:-D
Keep mailing… Take care
AS

And he completely disappeared after this email until I sent him the email about my holiday plans to the US almost a year later. Remember the one he took 6 months to reply?

So when he asked about my husband and kid I was a bit confused initially Suddenly I remembered our email exchange. I told him that my husband and kid are fine in Sydney and I was on holiday alone. He told me he was expecting to meet my husband and my kid at the airport that day.

It was really hard for me to play along any longer so I started laughing out loud. He was surprised and I had to explain to him that I had already forgotten about the email until he asked me about my husband and kid. I was not married and definitely had no kid. I was pulling his leg in the email because I was annoyed with him for disappearing for so long.

I don’t know if he was glad or not but he told me he had believed me 100% when I told him I was married with a kid. Lots of our friends were married by then and some even had kids so it was not unusual.

After that we talked about normal topics. One of the things I remember telling him was to open a Facebook account so we could keep in touch easily. He said he will do that and I knew it would be another year before I see his email or account.

After the first few hours we decided to have lunch. There was not much choice so we went for burger and chips with drinks. He remembered I was vegetarian during our school days and was surprised that I had started eating meat again. I told him that I ate meat from the time I came to Australia.

Actually my parents made me eat meat before I left Nepal. When I applied for my visa to Australia, they were really worried about me as I was a teenager and there was no one in Sydney who would look after me. It was hard for them to send me so far away. Then to top of all that one of my cousins who used to live in Australia told them that life was very hard for vegetarians in Australia so I might have a tough time adjusting. So they told me if I don’t start eating meat I wouldn’t be allowed to go. I really wanted to come to Australia for a fresh start so I gave in.

I still remember the first time I ate meat. Tears were coming down from my eyes when my mom served me minced chicken with lots of mushrooms. As it had been years since I hadn’t had any meat, I could taste the meat even thought it was hidden within mushroom.

I don’t regret my decision right now as I love meat. Also I know my parents did all that because they loved me and they wanted to make sure I would be OK in Australia.

Back to LA airport: I and AS were catching up with my experience in US. I met a few common friends from school so I was sharing my experience with him. It was so nice to meet these friends after so long as well. If I think about it right now, I really don’t know what else we talked about but more than 4 hours passed just like that at one table in the food court. By that time we were hungry again and we decided to have another round of food. This time it was Mexican tacos and burritos. I remember complaining to AS that I didn’t like Mexican food in US. I know, Mexico is next door so those Mexican foods must be very authentic. But I love Mexican food in Sydney and it was so different from what they sell here. It’s the same like how we didn’t enjoy pizza in Italy, how ironic.

I couldn’t believe how fast time flew and it was time for me to check in for my flight to Sydney. He helped me again with my luggage and we went to the check in counter to check in my luggage.

I had one more hour before I had to go inside to clear immigration and board the plane. I was having such a nice time with AS at that point that I was sorry I was leaving.

The last hour passed pretty quickly and it was time for me to board the plane. I almost forgot but at last minute we took a few pictures together. It was a good time and I am glad we caught that on camera forever. I told him that I would email the photos once I reached Sydney.

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I made him promise to keep in touch with me and not to disappear for six months like before. He swore that it won’t happen again and bid me good bye with the same smile on his face, the one I remembered him from our school days.

With sadness, I went inside the immigration area and turned around to look at him one last time thinking I may not see him ever in my life again.

The post is getting long so I will write more in next post. Hope you will come back and read more  :)

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Our Story : The Beginning – Part 1

Life has a funny way of surprising us, doesn’t it? You go through your days, not paying much attention to the world around you. Then, out of the blue, you meet someone who becomes your everything, someone you can’t imagine your life without. People often say, “The moment I laid my eyes on you, I knew you were the one.” I’m sure that’s how most love stories begin. But for me and AS, our story was a bit different.

Let me take you back to the beginning.

I first met AS in high school. To be honest, I can’t recall the exact moment we first saw or spoke to each other. With 52 students in our class, it took me a while to remember everyone’s name. Over time, I found myself spending more time with a certain group of friends, and AS was part of that circle. We got to know each other gradually, always in the company of others.

Our school organised hikes every few months, and our group would often join in. We also frequented the library, restaurants, and even went to tuition together, spending a lot of time in each other’s company. Though we rarely spent time alone, I do remember walking back from the library with him a few times. We visited each other’s homes occasionally with other friends. I distinctly remember having lunch at his place once, cooked by his mum. At my place, he still teases me about the undercooked instant noodles I served him for lunch.

Back then, I was a tomboy who enjoyed the company of boys more than girls. I had only four female friends but many male ones. I liked AS as a friend, but it never crossed my mind that he could be more than that.

There were a few reasons why. AS was a nice guy who studied hard and did well in class. He was always there when I needed help, and I liked his smile. But he was soft-spoken and shy, the opposite of my loud and extroverted self. Yet, I could never forget his smile. Years after high school, whenever someone mentioned him, it was his smile that came to mind.

After high school, we went our separate ways. I moved to Australia for further studies, and AS went to India for engineering. We emailed each other maybe twice a year, and it was usually me initiating the contact. He would take months to reply, often popping up out of nowhere with a brief email, then disappearing again. His behaviour annoyed me, but I accepted it.

Whenever I visited Nepal from Australia, I’d email my friends to see if anyone would be around. Somehow, AS and I always missed each other. He’d either just left or was arriving shortly after my departure. We didn’t meet for a long time.

Remember Hi5, the social network before Facebook? I had an account and invited all my friends, including AS. He joined but never updated his profile, making it rather useless.

We continued our lives 1000 miles apart, mostly unaware of what the other was up to. AS occasionally checked my Hi5 account, as he later admitted.

After graduation, I started traveling. One trip took me to the USA. I planned to meet as many friends as possible, including AS, who was in LA. I emailed everyone months in advance  and many friends emailed me back and I start making my plans according to that., but AS, predictably, didn’t respond. I was really annoyed as I considered him a good friend; it would have been good to catch up with him.

The day before my flight, I was checking my email and to my surprise, I saw one from him. Seriously, after more than 5 months, he was replying to me.

His email was something like this

“Hello,

Looks like I caught you right on time,

I am in LA these days and here is my number XXXXXXX. Please call me when you get here.

Have a safe flight.

AS”

I was really annoyed with the email as I could imagine his smiley face typing those words. Anyway I saved his number on my phone and waited for my holiday to start.

It was a long flight to the US but I was really excited as it was my first big trip. I had a friend picking me up in LA and I was staying with him and his aunt. He and his aunt had made many plans for me so when I landed in the US, I didn’t call AS straight away. There were so many things to do and see that the time flew so two days before I was to leave LA I called him to check if he had anytime to meet me before I flew out. We couldn’t work out a time that suited both of us so I travelled around Pennsylvania, Niagara Falls, Toronto, New York, and Florida.

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Niagara Falls

Disney world

Disney world

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NYC Bull

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I didn’t have any hope of meeting AS because on my way back to Australia, I had only 12 hours in LA which I was planning to spend in the airport. I didn’t want to complicate things by by going out.

Around the end of my holiday, AS called me up and asked my schedule in LA on my way back. I told him my plan. I was a bit annoyed with him that he hadn’t met me. I told him if he really has time, he can come to the airport as I won’t be able to travel to where he is. I was half expecting him to say he was busy but he said he would come. I was glad to have some company during my stopover.

After having an awesome time with my friends and family, finally I landed in LA. While walking out from the terminal, I was thinking that I didn’t have a mobile phone so if AS didn’t show up (which was quite possible) as we had planned I would be alone for more than 12 hours in the airport. I had my laptop with me so I planned to surf the internet to kill time. I came out and went to collect my baggage. I saw my bags coming out and was about to take the bags from the carousel and those bags were super heavy. I had done so much shopping that I was having a hard time lifting my suitcase. Then there he was. YES, AS actually made it to the airport to meet me. And he was there helping me lift my bags onto a trolley.

The post is getting long so I will write more in next post. Hope you will come back and read more  🙂

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Varsha Thapa: First international fashion model from Nepal

It is always great to report success of people from Nepal. Today I am introducing Varsha Thapa, a beauty with long cascading dark hair, enviable skin and exotic features who became the first ever Nepali to walk the New York Fashion Week in 2011.

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She’s been recognized as one of Nepal’s first supermodels and she is represented by Wilhelmina Model Agency. She is the first and only Nepali model to be represented by a major agency in America. She made her runway debut in Spring/Summer 2012 during New York Fashion Week walking in 10 shows including Prabal Gurung, Phillip Lim and Many Coon.

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Varsha Thapa - Photo - Fashion Model

Varsha’s dream is to walk for Roberto Cavalli, be the face of Calvin Klein and to become a Victoria’s Secret Angel.

Here are her details

Hair color: Dark brown

Eye color: Brown

Place of birth: Nepal

Date of Birth: Dec 16, 1990

Height: 5’10”; 178cm

Measurements: (US) 32-23.5-34; (EU) 82-62-86

Dress size: (US) 2-4; (EU) 32-34

Shoe size: (US) 8; (EU) 38.5; (UK) 5.5

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Varsha is a graduate of Hospitality Management but decided to become a model because of her passion for modelling. Since having arrived in New York, Varsha has been mentored by her scout, Roman Young. “He has helped me with everything from my walk to advising me on what to wear when I go for casting calls,” Varsha said.

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Varsha has been adjusting really well in New York as, on a single day, Varsha had casting calls scheduled with 19 designers. Impressively, she made it to 18 of them. The gruelling nature of the industry is the norm, especially for Fashion Week. But Varsha has also been sent to casting calls at some of the industry’s biggest names like Donna Karan, Calvin Klein, Tom Ford, Marc Jacobs, an indication of where her agency thinks her potential lies and looks fit.

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She has done shows like – Spring/Summer 2012 {3.1 Phillip Lim, Creatures of the Wind, L’Wren Scott, Mandy Coon, Patrik Ervell, Prabal Gurung, St. John, Suno, Suzanne Rae}, Autumn/Winter 2012 {Bibhu Mohapatra, Dennis Basso, Libertine, Miguel Adrover, Tracy Reese}.

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She was also featured in Navayaata magazine in Nepal as well as Rouge Magazine in China.

Here is her interview with Women’s Wear Daily (WWD)

 WWD: It’s getting late in Paris — are you heading to bed soon?

Varsha Thapa: I just got to another job now, for Moda Operandi. We’re shooting Christopher Kane, I think. This is my first time working with them. I came from a fitting at Vivienne Westwood. I tried on like eight outfits. The shoes were crazy. Vivienne alwaysFXFLd7IfrZi45yu.ZOi3sc6D2CbHo_hmried were in a heart shape, with block heels. They were kind of hard to walk in, and I had to walk maybe twelve times.

WWD: Before we talk about Paris, how was New York Fashion Week?

V.T.: Great. I did Kimberly Ovitz, which was really fun. I like her clothes a lot. It was really artistic. Generally, she does like black stuff, but this time she included colour. She had these leather pants that were really cool. They were like painted gold or something. They were amazing.

 WWD: Did any other shows stand out?

V.T.: I did Bibhu Mohapatra, and I really like his clothes a lot. That show had crazy hair. First there were braids, then they had to back-comb everything. There were a lot of things going on. It was painful, but it was only for a little bit, so I was fine. There was a bun and on top of that, there was a lot of crimping. There were a lot of clips in my hair. It took a while to take them out. I slept on the pins and the next day, I was like, “What is this in my hair?”

 WWD: What are your thoughts on Paris so far?

V.T.: The amazing thing about Paris is there are so many patisseries here. You don’t really have to think about what to get — there are so many amazing choices. In New York, you don’t have that. Either you go to Starbucks or some other chain. There is this place near my hotel, and I know it’s not the healthiest, but it’s so good. Every morning, I’m so tempted to go there and get a croissant. They have different types of croissants, a healthy kind and a regular. I get the healthy kind, but sometimes I sneak and get the regular.

 WWD: Have you gotten to do any tourist-y activities?

V.T.: No, and this is my first time ever going to Paris. Thankfully, I’m here until March 20th. I’m going to go to the Eiffel Tower and the Champs-Elysées. I want to explore Paris, which I haven’t been able to. Since the moment I got here, I started working.

WWD: Do you know what shows you’ll be doing?

V.T.: It’s all to be determined. You never know until you are confirmed. It’s very iffy. I’m not sure if I’m going to do anything, or if I’ll book a show after the fitting. But, the castings are still happening, the fittings are still happening and the options are still there.

 WWD: Do you ever get disappointed when you don’t book a job?

V.T.: Yes. Just a few days ago, after a casting, I got sent directly to a fitting because the designers liked me a lot. I was there waiting for four hours, so I had to miss two really good castings. Then, after the fitting, I was cancelled from the show. That was a really big disappointment, but it’s all right. It happens every season to every girl.

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Binod Chaudhary: First Nepali on FORBES Billionaires List

It is always great to see people from Nepal progressing so well. Binod Chaudhary, 57, owner and chairman of the Cinnovation/Chaudhary Group has made it to FORBES Billionaires List for this year with a net worth of $1 Billion as of March, 2013.

This world has lots of people with lots of money and he share his global billionaire ranking with 84 other individuals who have also been ranked 1,342nd richest on Earth.

He has interests in banking, foods (his company makes Nepalese favourite instant noddle and mine too, Wai Wai), cement, real estate, hotels, power, retail, electronics.

Mr. Chaudhary takes pride in his success in the noodles business, particularly with ‘WaiWai’. The brand has now spread wings to 35 countries with an annual production of a billion packets.

In a twitter update, Chaudhary said it was a “rare honour and recognition for a non-Indian South Asian”.

“We (are) humbled (and) take this as an honour for Nepal. Nepal will now be known in the global corporate sector,” twitted Chaudhary, who recently published his biography.

Here is some information about him I found in internet.

Mr. Chaudhary is Nepal´s first billionaire but built most of his fortunes are overseas, said Forbes, which in 2008 valuated his wealth at over $500 million. “His Cinnovation/Chaudhary Group, owns among much else, popular instant noodle brand Wai Wai, a controlling stake in Nepal´s Nabil Bank and a string of luxury hotels with India´s Taj hotel chain.”

Building this empire, however, was not an easy task, Chaudhary said. “This journey began with my grandfather´s decision to migrate to Nepal and 40 years of my persistent hard work,” he said.

His grandfather, a textile trader from Rajasthan, migrated to Nepal in the 19th century. He opened a small textile store that used to supply goods to the erstwhile rulers. Chaudhary’s father, converted that into Arun Emporium, Nepal’s first department store. The eldest of 3 siblings, Chaudhary joined the business at age 18, giving up his plan to study accounting in India when his father developed a heart ailment. The group had 400 people then versus 7,500 today.

A family division gave Chaudhary the freedom to pursue his own ambitions. Seeking expansion, he created Cinnovation through which he acquired overseas assets. Though scandals have dogged Chaudhary as he has flowered, he was also able to get a controlling interest in Nepal’s Nabil Bank .

A fitness fanatic, Chaudhary goes trekking in the Himalayas every year to clear his head. He and wife Sarika also regularly visit their health farm in the Philippines.

Currently, Nirvana, his eldest son, handles business operations in Nepal. Another son, Varun, oversees businesses in Dubai and India, while Rahul looks over businesses in Singapore and India.

“It is a proud moment not only for me, but for all my corporate friends and Nepali people. Nepal’s corporate sector has now come forward in the global arena. It has raised our self-esteem,” said Chaudhary.

“All this wouldn´t have been possible without the efforts of two of my sons, who are non-resident Nepalis,” Chaudhary told Republica, rebuking the government ban on overseas investment by Nepalis.

“The government should make changes to its policies if it wants to give birth to more Binod Chaudharys. I do not want potential and energetic entrepreneurs to struggle like I did.”

Here is an interview he gave to myrepublica in Jan 2013.

Not only am I doing well professionally, I’m also the world’s best husband. My wife will vouch for that,” says Binod Chaudhary, the man behind the successful Chaudhary Group, the biggest conglomerate in Nepal.

Born in April 1955, Binod started business from an early age. He expanded his family business and opened a disco before launching a music album and making movies. Then came Wai-Wai, and in the years that followed, one of Nepal’s largest companies was born. With that, Binod became a force to be reckoned with.

When the late King Birendra visited his home after a trip to the Wai-Wai factory, he had pulled Binod aside and said in a hushed whisper that Binod was on his way to becoming an icon everyone would soon be after.

Today, Binod is easily the most popular businessman in Nepal and has many, many accolades to his name. From President of the Confederation of Nepalese Industries to Member of the Constituent Assembly, the list of positions he has held is indeed long.


Photo: Chanda Shekhar Karki

But there is more of him than just titles. He is a charmer and a people’s person. His conduct and effervescent smile have won the confidence of his staffs and public alike. His easy way of instantly connecting with people has always made him an admired public figure.

As he continues to create ripples in the corporate world, there seems to be something else on his mind presently. Binod is excited about his soon-to-be-launched autobiography that has been published by Nepa-laya and penned by Sudip Shrestha.

The Week caught up with the business tycoon to talk about his upcoming book and everything else but business.

Why did you decide to tell your story?

Nepa-laya had been approaching me for quite a while but I kept putting it off. They said they would provide me with a journalist and everything would be taken care of. I had mixed feelings about it initially but I had a lot of respect for this publication house, looking at their past work, so I eventually gave in. I’ve always been a public figure and my life’s been an open book. There’s no dimension of my life that hasn’t been talked or written about. Coming up with a book was just taking it to the next level. I did think it was an unnecessary headache but I decided to go ahead with it.

How was the experience of having a writer as your shadow throughout your book writing journey?

Initially, I was skeptical when they assigned Sudip Shrestha. Generally, I have a very good relationship with the media but I didn’t know Sudip all that well. I didn’t know how my words would be interpreted. Also the fact that I didn’t have much control over what he would eventually write was worrisome. But we went on a ten-day trek to Annapurna and he gradually won my trust, and confiding in him then became easy. Our relationship evolved over the five years it took to write the book, and I think he got to know me inside out. I’m very happy with the way the book has turned out.

How did it feel telling your story?

Writing an autobiography is reliving your life to a certain extent. I had forgotten a lot of things that had happened in the past. During the process of writing, long forgotten situations and incidents resurfaced that compelled me to probe my memory further. I remembered friends and people I’ve lost touch with. To be living life once again after 57 years is nostalgic but immensely satisfying. The process of narrating my story was effortless for me because I had made up my mind that I was going to be ruthlessly candid. Also, when I developed confidence in Sudip and could trust him one hundred percent, it was all a breeze. I just had to be a storyteller and leave the narration bits to him.

Are you scared of the repercussions now that you’ve come out with a bare-it-all account of your life?

I have absolutely no regrets about anything that’s happened in my life. That’s why I decided to tell my story in the first place. But now, when I read bits and pieces of the book, I get goose bumps sometimes. While narrating my story, I did it without a thought. I’ve mentioned a lot of well-known names. It’s going to offend and annoy a lot of people. Many will be jealous. Many will interpret my words in their own ways and will try to read between the lines and scrutinize me. I wouldn’t say I’m nervous because I’m a fairly strong man; but yes, I’m a bit anxious and excited.

Is there any particular incident you wish you hadn’t mentioned?

My life’s been full of ups and downs and challenges, so there are many incidents that, now in hindsight, I wish I hadn’t disclosed. But if I had started filtering out incidents, then this book wouldn’t have been written. I also saw and felt no need to hide anything. All the experiences that I’ve had have shaped me into what I’m today, and I’m proud of who I’ve become, despite the odds being stacked against me. I’ve been one hundred percent honest and that was a conscious decision I made. So I don’t regret mentioning anything that’s in the book.

What are some of the instances you’ve shared in your book that aren’t public knowledge yet?

There are many instances that’ll take readers by surprise. When I was in Santiago, Chile, there was an earthquake of around 8 Richter scale. My wife and I woke up and saw the room spinning around us. Sarika was scared and started praying. She even suggested we make a run for it. But we were on the 12th floor of the hotel, so I convinced her to stay put and not get out of bed. After a while, the shaking stopped and we decided to head down. The funniest bit of this incident is that, as I was leaving the room, I saw a mineral water bottle sitting upright on the bathroom sink. Not a drop of water had been spilled. The earthquake experience changed my life. Had I died, there would be one news report and the world would move on and I would be forgotten. I learnt that if there’s anything one wants to do, there’s no better time than the present to do it.

In the course of your career, what’s the most difficult hardship you encountered, and how did you handle it?

I think turning CG (Chaudhary Group) into a multinational company was the biggest challenge in my life. For 20 years, I struggled to do so before finally being able to live my dream. The government didn’t support my initiative. For any Nepali to be an international entrepreneur, you had to be a non-resident Nepali. I wasn’t prepared to accept that. If Maggie can set up a factory in Nepal, then Wai-Wai should also be able to do so wherever it wants. The rules and policies were against it and I decided to fight it. At the cost of being crucified, I continued with that journey. Nepal’s fluid political environment and anti-business sentiments were the biggest hurdles I had to get over. I’ve talked all about it in my autobiography. I had to find innovative means to get where I wanted and I paved my own path.

What’s been your philosophy or mantra in life?

I’ve always been ambitions and have never given up on any goal I’ve set up for myself. I’ve always found a way to do things within the confines of my own limitations. Nothing has happened by fluke. I’ve been clear about what I want and everything’s been planned accordingly. The roadmap might’ve changed along the way but the destination has never fluctuated. I believe that there’s no monopoly on wisdom, so there’s no need for anyone to feel inferior and develop complexes. You might be geared up for a game of tennis but life throws you a cricket ball. You’ve to be prepared to face and stand up to those challenges. Basically, my mantra in life has been never to compromise. The most important mantra for success, I believe, is time management. Knowing and managing your priorities without mixing them up will get you places.

What’s your advice for people who want to be as successful as you?

What I’ve learnt from my life’s struggles is that even if your intentions are right, the process of achieving your goals can be tough. There’ll be people who’ll try to pull you down. But if you’re hell bent on achieving what you’ve set out to, you’ll find a way to do it. You shouldn’t make lame excuses and waste your time hounded by your own complaints. You’ve to devise your own solutions to problems. If there’s an artificial wall created to block you from reaching your goal, don’t be a fool to try and break the wall. Work your way around it and find a way to get there. Nothing’s impossible to attain as long as you’re clear and obsessed. You need to know your own strength and be clear about what you want from life. If you aren’t clear about what you want from life ten years down the line, chances are that it’ll never happen. Also, nothing’s going to be served on a silver platter; you shall have to work for it.

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Zoo visit in Nepal

I hadn’t been to the zoo in Kathmandu for more than a decade but this time we were lucky that we had time enough to visit the zoo. The zoo is located a few kilometres away from the city centre, Kathmandu. It is the only zoo in Nepal, a country with a population of 30 million, and hence fulfils an important role.

We hadn’t planned to there. We were out for lunch with my parents, my brother, SIL and little nephew. As we were close to the zoo, my dad suggested that we should go and visit it so that my little nephew could have some fun and all of us agreed to it.

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I remember around 3 years ago, me and AS wanted to go to the zoo. We were outside the gate and we saw so many people that it put us off from going inside. But I am glad we went this time.

As we walked inside, I realised nothing much had changed in the last decade, which is very sad.

The animal enclosures are arranged around the perimeter of a large boating lake which takes up a large proportion of the zoo’s area.

As we started of tour, we saw an elephant riding area. My dad wanted my nephew to have his first elephant ride so we went and asked the guys there for more information. They said there are a few groups already booked for the tour so asked us to buy the ticket and come back in an hour.

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The elephant ride cost us RS 100 each for around 15 minutes ride. So after buying the tickets we continued our tour.

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The zoo is arranged according to taxonomy, with mammals, birds, reptiles and fishes all occupying different parts of the zoo. There are also playground rides, picnic lawns and boat rides on the lake. As we started walking around the zoo, I realised that there were lots of families with small kids enjoying their picnic as well as many lovebirds in corner benches enjoying their time together away from prying eyes.

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The zoo houses some 780 species including the critically endangers white-rumped vulture and Chinese alligator and six endangered species: Asian elephant, royal bengal tiger, one horned rhino, wild buffalo, gharial and yellow headed turtle.

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Along with these animals, there were hippos that was lazily sunbathing, a hyena, a giant deer, peacocks, white-napped crane, two big rhinos, monkeys, water buffalo, chimpanzees, leopards, beer, tigers, lions as well as golden pheasant, silver pheasant, chukar, kalij, parrots, owls. They also have small reptile collection featured a common cobra, an Indian rock python, snakes and a turtle.

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By the time we had a look around; it was almost our turn to ride the elephant so we went back to the riding area. We waited for 10 minutes and it was our turn.

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The guy told us it is OK for all of us to ride at the same time (poor elephant) so me, AS, my dad, my brother, SIL and my nephew got on the top of this elephant. I was glad that my nephew enjoyed the ride.

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Initially, the elephant was not listening to its handler and I was a bit scared as he was not moving according to the pre-planned route but after a while he relented and followed the route. While talking to the handler, he told us that the elephant is round 70 years old and does 8-10 trips every day. I felt sorry for the poor animal as he is so old and has to do this every day.

We were taken half way around the lake and then back to the same spot where we got on it. For some reason my nephew started to cry, poor baby. We were all glad when we get off as we were worried if something might have happened to him. But he was fine, just restless as he had to sit in one place too long. By this time it was getting cold and windy so we decided to go home.

I had a really nice time with my family and was happy to see my nephew have his first elephant ride.

Even though the zoo in Nepal is small but it is well maintained I am sure it is a great place for kids to visit to learn more about different animals. Construction was going on everywhere so it looks like it is in the process of a face lift with new paths and enclosures so I think in a few years it will be quite lovely.