Donate Life

In Australia (I guess every where in the world), many people die every day waiting for an organ donation. The main reason of this is because, even though people have consented to donate their organs when they are alive, their family doesn’t want to donate them once they die.

 

This is how organ donation works in Australia. When people apply for get their driving licence, there is a section where it ask you if want to be an organ donor. You can tick No or choose to donate all parts of your body or certain part of the body.  So the licences of a person can tell if one is donor or not. [This is only in NSW] 

Not enough people choose to donate their organs in the first place, but things go worse when the even people who do choose to donate are not able to do so. Because, when someone dies, their loved ones have to consent before the doctor can go through the organ donation process. According to the statistics, more than 60% of the family members will say NO at this stage. So this is really reducing the number of real donors, which in turn reduces the number of people who could have been saved. 

Losing someone is always a hard thing to deal with and no one wants to go through that process but at the same time we have to admit that death is a natural process and one day everyone has to die. But even after death , one organ donor can help save more than 10 lives. Think about it. What good is your body when it is cremated or buried? But if you die and it can help save so many lives, why don’t we do it? 

We never know how life going to turn out. May be you may need an organ donor one day. Imagine waiting in the queue for years to find a donor when every day is important for your survival. If you can’t imagine that happening to you then may be you don’t want anyone to go through that process either. Look at the list below. Imagine if any of the waiting patients was your loved one. 

Last week when I was watching a TV, I came across this amazing story of parents, Oliver Zammit and RoseMarie Zammit, who donated their son’s organs. Here is what happened. 

Doujon Zammit was 20 years and was on a holiday of his life time in Greece when the tragedy struck and died. Oliver Zammit  flew immediately to Greece, to Doujon’s bedside, praying for a miracle – that his son would wake up. Unfortunately, he died but his family respected his wish to donate his organs, and those organs saved 4 lives. The story does not end here. The parents have met 3 out of the 4 receivers of their son’s organs. To top all this, Oliver Zammit became a best man on the wedding of the man Kostas Gribilas who received his son’s heart. 

Click here for more inspiring stories of hope.

Here are some of the myths regarding organ donation which you can discard from today onwards. (Source: www.donatelife.gov.au) 

Organ donation is against my religion.

Reality:

Most religions support organ and tissue donation as generous acts that benefit people. This includes Christianity, Islam, Buddhism, Hinduism and Judaism. If you are not sure whether your religion is supportive, speak to your religious adviser. You can also read or download a fact sheet on organ and tissue donation in relation to all the major religions at www.donatelife.gov.au 

I’m too old, too young or not healthy enough to donate.

Reality:

Almost any one can donate their organs and tissue. While your age and medical history will be considered, you shouldn’t assume you are too old, too young or not healthy enough. There’s every chance that some of your organs and tissues will be suitable for donation. Only some medical conditions may prevent you from being a donor, such as transmissible diseases like HIV. 

My family won’t be able to view my body.

Reality:

Yes they will. The removal of organs and tissue is no different from any other surgical operation, and is performed by highly skilled health professionals. The donor’s body is always treated with dignity and respect. The donation of organs and tissue does not alter the physical appearance of the body, and your family will be able to view your body and have an open casket if they wish. 

I’ve already registered. I don’t need to tell my family.

Reality:

You do need to discuss your decision with your family and friends, even if you have registered on the Australian Organ Donor Register (or, in some states, on your driver’s licence). Donation won’t proceed without your family’s consent. Families are less likely to give consent for donation if they do not know the wishes of the deceased. That’s why every family is encouraged to discuss and know each other’s wishes. 

There won’t be any support for my family.

Reality:

The Intensive Care Unit team caring for you and the DonateLife Agency Donor Coordinator and Donor Family Support Coordinator give the family as much support as they need during and after the decision to donate. Families considering organ and tissue donation will also have access to free bereavement counselling. The DonateLife Donor Coordinator will be the family’s initial point of contact from the time donation is first discussed. They provide the link between the family and the medical team and will help the family after the donation, particularly with arranging a private farewell and/or a viewing of the body, if the family wishes. The coordinator will contact the donor family with details of support offered in their state or territory. The coordinator can, if the family wishes, provide information on the outcomes of the donation and give details on how to write anonymously to the recipients. 

My organs and tissue will be used for research.

Reality:

Organ donation is about helping save or improve other people’s lives. Donated tissues and organs will never be used for medical research unless explicit written permission is given by your family. 

Doctors won’t work as hard to save my life if they know I’m a donor.

Reality:

Not so. Medical staff does everything possible to save lives. Their first duty is to you and saving your life. Organ and tissue donation will only be considered after all efforts fail and you have been legally declared dead. In most cases, a person may only be able to donate organs where they have been declared brain-dead in an intensive care unit in hospital. Brain death is when blood circulation to the brain ceases, and the brain stops functioning and dies with no possibility of recovery. A series of tests carried out by two independent and appropriately qualified senior doctors establishes that brain death has occurred. People are sometimes confused about the difference between brain death and coma. Brain death is completely different from coma. A patient in a coma is unconscious because their brain is injured in some way, but their brain can continue to function and may heal. Medical tests can clearly distinguish between brain death and coma. 

Organ donation may also be possible after a person’s heart has stopped beating, commonly referred to as donation after cardiac death. A far greater number of people have the opportunity to donate tissue for transplantation. Tissue donation does not require the donor’s death to have occurred in the same limited circumstances as organ donation for transplantation to be successful. 

I don’t need to donate my organs because thousands of others do.

Reality:

Few people die in such a way that donation is possible. Organ donors must die in hospital where their body can be medically supported until the organs can be donated. There are some 1600 Australians on official waiting lists at any one time. 

People only need organs because of bad lifestyle choices.

Reality:

Many people have an inherited genetic condition, a severe illness or disease that will kill them, often at a young age. Common genetic conditions are cardiomyopathy (which affects the heart), cystic fibrosis (the lungs) and biliary atresia (the liver). Corneal transplants restore sight to people following a disease or damage to their eyes. Heart valves are used to repair congenital defects in young children and replace defective valves due to disease such as rheumatic fever, degeneration and infection. 

I was so inspired by this show. Please watch this if you are still not convinced why you should donate the organ. 

 

If you are in Australia, please go to this website http://www.donatelife.gov.au/ (If you are somewhere else, please Google and find the website where you can register as a donor)  and  I hope it will help you change your mind about donating your organs after your death, if you haven’t done so already. Imagine, so many people can live longer because of you some day. Don’t you want that? Imagine if one of your loved ones is an organ receiver and have prolong their life by many years. Please think rationally and donate life. 

I am a full donor, are you?

The magic of Prabal Gurung continues

By now everyone already knows Prabal Gurung as one of the most happening designers, whose design was seen on Michelle Obama, Oprah Winfrey, Demi Moore and Sarah Jessica Parker just to name a few. Please click here for his detailed introduction.

This week was the Oscar and Kate Bosworth wore a Prabal Gurung during Vanity Fair Oscar Party. She wore a black tulle long sleeve dress with filigree cutwork, sparkling with jet beads and Sistine blue crystals and was accented with a heavy black belt. She looked absolutely stunning combined with her simple accessories and a slick bun.

Here are a few other celebrities who were spotted with a Prabal Gurung design.

Along with Hollywood celebrities, Bollywood celebrities like Sonam Kapoor and Kareena Kapoor have been spotted with Prabal Gurung designs as well.

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Title of world’s shortest man, back to Nepal.

In 2010, Nepal had the title of world’s shortest man as Khagendra Thapa Magar who was 67cm tall . But the title was short-lived when Filipino Junrey Balawing was confirmed to be 59.93 cm. Now in 2012, Nepal has that title back as Chandra Bahadur Dangi who stands just 54.6cm tall. Guinness World Records has officially awarded him the title of the shortest man in the world. 

Chandra Bahadur Dangi is 72 years old and weighs 12 kg. He is from Dang district which is 350km from Kathmandu where he survives weaving jute headbands. He has also been declared the shortest human adult ever recorded. 

Being shorter than average has so many disadvantage and I can’t imagine being so short. According to Dangi’s interview he was orphaned at age 12 and was looked after by his relatives. His relatives used to display him at freak shows to make money for themselves. He has never experienced romance or found his soul mate. He wants to visit foreign countries and meet people from around the world. 

I hope he will find some happiness with this record as Khagendra Thapa Magar did. Khagendra Thapa Magar has visited many countries including Australia and looked happy to be the centre of attention during events and dinners here. He was also the official face of Nepal’s tourism campaign, which featured him as the smallest man in a country that is home to the world’s highest peak, Mount Everest.

Can you live a day without a mobile phone?

It was our lunch time topic at work today. 

My answer is NO, unless I have to. Because, I carry my mobile everywhere I go, I check my emails on it, Facebook and twitter on it as well as put my calendar on it including my things to do. I would be lost without it. I don’t remember the phone numbers of my friends and family by heart so if I ever have to call anyone when I don’t have my mobile with me, it would be a nightmare. 

I know it is really bad to rely so heavily on the phone but it has made my life so easy that I can’t imagine living without it. I have sometimes forgotten the phone at home by mistake and I felt like a part of me was missing the whole day until I was reunited with my beloved phone. I am sorry if you find it crazy but I am just being honest about how I feel about my phone. 

I am sure I am not alone in this situation. Every time I go to any restaurant or public place, I see people on the street walking while talking on the phone or messaging on the phone. What about the drivers talking while driving? I am totally against that so I keep my phone in my bag while I drive so I am not tempted to answer the phone if it rings.

Also in restaurants if you see a group of friends dinning together, at least half of them will be playing with their phone. It might be considered anti social but it has become a habit for many people.

Nowadays our life has become so dependent on the internet and having internet in our mobile phone has made our mobile phone even more valuable.  We can book tickets, pay bills, chat with friends on Facebook or bank online using our phones. It can be used as a camera, an audio and video recorder, for multi-media messaging, email client, web client, gaming platform, document viewer and editor, music player, TV, wallet, calculator, bar code reader and the list goes on. 

I still remember the days when I was in Nepal, if I had to meet anyone we either pre planned when we would meet or talk on our landlines from our homes to fix the time. Life used to be simpler for sure as you just make a plan and follow it. With the introduction of mobile phones, things have changed a lot. Instead of making plans ahead, we just call on the go to see if people are around to catch up. 

I sometimes believe that the mobile phone has become a necessity instead of a convenience because I am sure having a mobile phone has saved many lives. Imagine if you have an accident in the middle of nowhere and you can’t contact anyone. When accidents happen, the  mobile phone has made it possible to contact the necessary people ASAP rather than trying to find a public pay phone. 

So, yes I might be able to live without a mobile phone for a day but I can’t live without it for life. I would never voluntarily choose to live a day without a mobile phone. 

What about you?

No Light

Load shedding is a familiar term in Nepal and it means shutting down of power (electricity) in particular areas of the city to reduce electricity usage. In Nepal, load shedding of electricity has a schedule and affects everyone living there. 

I came across this short Nepali animation which tells the story of Nepali people living with load shedding schedule in Nepal. I really can’t imagine my life without electricity up to 20 hours a day. But most Nepali people have no choice but go on with their normal life with a candle light or an oil lamp. 

It is normal in Nepal to have power outage for a few hours a day but in the summer months it goes up to 20 hours a day so you really have to do everything that requires electricity in 4 hours. If you are lucky, those 4 hours can be morning or evenings but if you are not, it may be in the middle of the night when you are sleeping or the middle of the day when you are at work. It is really a sad situation for a country which has so much hydro power generation capacity and at this stage, it only produce half the amount of electricity that the country needs. 

According to a report, Nepal can produce 40,000 MW of electricity from all its rivers but right now is only producing 600 MW (really sad situation). And only 40% of the country has electricity. And these 40% still have to live with load shedding. 

Political instability and power struggle has led the country backwards into darkness for a more than a decade now. Instead of using the money to invest in the country’s infrastructure, everyone who comes into power to run the government are busy buying new mansions for themselves, travelling overseas in luxury, with first class flights and hotels and making sure their children are sent to top universities in the world. 

Imagine your life without any electrical equipment like vacuum cleaner, refrigerator, microwave, kettle, toaster etc. Yes that is right, you might be scared thinking how you would mange a day without all this but in Nepal they have to go through this everyday. 

When I was in Nepal, the situation was not that bad but every time I go for a visit, I find that so many things are going backward instead of forward. There are more people in Kathmandu valley than the infrastructure can handle and it has made the valley chaotic and polluted.  I have no idea why the government is not doing anything when they know things are not working. It feels like if you have power and/or money, you can get away with anything there. 

In an attempt to make the government aware of the problems people are suffering, at one point they even had one of the television station broadcastings news using lanterns. 

 

Hydropower projects are the future of the country and I really hope there will be at least a few projects built to ease the situation of the people. And I hope politicians will make it easy for these project to be built because I know there were a few projects closed down because of the political situations.