Last weekend we went for a weekend away with a family who have a small baby boy. Chhori was so gentle and engaged with the baby that we wondered if she is ok to have a little sibling.
I and AS have always thought we will have 2 babies but once Chhori was born we were so busy that we didn’t have time to think about it much.
We did have the conversation a few times this year but we always ended up saying we are not ready. Initially, we thought Chhori is too small but now as she is a bit bigger, we don’t know if we need to think about it again.
At times, we imagine that having another baby will be so hard and busy, maybe we are OK to stop at one. Then I see Chhori with other kids and wish she has a sibling to play with as well.
It’s like a constant battle of yes and no in our heads that I thought I will get the opinion and ideas of people who have already been on this boat.
I really want to ask everyone out there who is a parent this questions
If you have one baby, why did you stop at one? If given a choice, would you like another one?
Parents of more than one kids, when did you know that you were ready to have no 2.
Seriously, is anyone ready for a baby at all, in general, let alone more than one baby? 🙂
No offense to anyone who have more babies. I just wonder how you mange kids, home, work and life in general.
Please do share your thoughts.
M from nepaliaustralian